marfisa-thor: And I love to lust after you. Hah, loved the contrast between these too. I hadn’t ever considered a spiked cage as anything I’d use but the idea of putting him in one and then making him watch porn as a behaviour modification is kinda sexy!
Tag: chastity cages
Loved your ‘mean’ story – did you peg him?! If so, any tips? I wanted to try it with my OH but am a bit nervous about it. We bought the strap on a couple of yeras ago but its never been used
Thank you! Yes it’s been a lot of fun, he’s loving it too. And yes, I totally pegged him the next day! I’ve been looking at a really good blog that’s all about it: http://onthekneesnow.tumblr.com/ It’s got some stuff that’s not for us, as with most, and lots of the pictures are quite graphic, but…
Careful with that “upgrade” to an authentic CB6000, they can break just as easily as the knockoffs… I’ve found the solid metal version of the same thing is far more stable, just 20 times heavier
amvetdl: keephimcaged: Okay, well lovehoney give a year’s return deal so we can send it back if there’s a proble. So with the metal version, you mean the copies you find on ebay? I’m just a bit worried the plated metal won’t be very good for hubby’s cock. Have you used one for long, any…
My girlfriend came to me with this idea today, and it was an instant turn on for me and her. But as we started talking about it, I brought up a cage and she loved it. Do you have any advice on cages? Easy to clean, material, noticeable, etc. Thanks!
Well it all depends how well endowed you are. But here’s the cages page from our favourite toy store – Lovehoney. It’s the CB6000s that we’ve been using, and hubby says he’s been amazed at hom comfy it’s been. There were a load of different sizing options on the ring that goes around your balls…
It appears you have only had this site running for a few months, but the way you answer questions and the things you discuss on it make me feel like you have been keeping your husband chaste for more time than that. Can you tell us if you were doing this prior to starting this blog? If not, then how did you reach the level of experience you appear to be at so quickly?
Oh thank you, that’s so sweet of you! We have only been doing it a bit longer – we both love sex toys and one day early this year, hubby, a bit nervously, showed me a cock cage on ebay and said ‘It’s pretty cheap, might be a laugh, what do you think?’ I really wasn’t…
Cage upgrade!
Well, not really an upgrade but finally our cheap chinese CB6000s cage broke (which was quite funny, for me, for hubby it involved pinched skin, he was not happy I was laughing so much!). The cage has fitted him so well and we’ve got so much use out of it that we decided to invest…
This is so true, I’ve never had so much oral sex until we started caging him up. At first felt guilty about it but he kept telling me that it was hot to be made to go down on me and just focus on my pleasure, not even knowing if he’ll get any. So I’ve taken him at his word and tell him I want him to lick me all the time now, it’s amazing!
He will tell you if he doesn’t want to, he’ll tell you if his tongue is tired, stop making excuses that don’t exist. He gets aroused by you being horny, wanting pleasure, and telling him you want it.
So try it, ‘I’m horny honey, come and lick me’ – he will love it!
And for some reason he tells me it’s really hot if I do something else sometimes, like read a book, or watch a movie (I already mentioned how me watching porn he can’t see while he does this drives him CRAZY! lol), so try those too!
Just be aware he’ll slowly be able to go longer and longer, if he’s new to it five or ten minutes is all he’ll be able to do before he needs to use fingers or a toy. Nowadays hubby goes down on me for half an hour or more and I cum a few times at least.
10 Chastity / Forced denial Benefits.
maleslaveswanted: I’ve listed what i consider to be the 10 most positive things you can gain from Chastity or any form of long term or forced denial. It stops your man from wasting his time and libido masturbating. If you are in a relationship, all of his sexual energy should be directed at you. It…
The ruined orgasm challenge
So I saw this on http://beautifulsecrets42.tumblr.com/ and loved the idea but there were bits of it I didn’t like so I’ve changed some, hope you like my take on it. I’d keep him caged in between most of the tasks, just to add to the experience, but I guess that’s not necessary, just fun! This is a…
How to edge him
I’ve talked about ruining an orgasm but haven’t actually discussed the practicalities of what we do much more, which is edging. So that’s playing with him and masturbating him right to the edge of orgasm but NOT letting him cum. Along with teasing this is the basic trick with caging him. Most days he’s wearing…