Tag: edging


God yes! Such sweet, sweet, aching denial when you really think that this is the time!

At the Marriage Replenishment Weekend couples enjoyed multiple ‘Edging Sessions’ from qualified edging technicians throughout the weekend, before being put back into their chastity devices and left to enjoy the intimacy and arousal with each other in private.

The dramatic impact of the programme on their intimacy levels often led to them signing up to the longer term programme before they left the spa. That involved the husband, and optionally the wife, remaining in their chastity devices, for at least another two weeks, when an edging technician qualified in keyholding can make a visit to assess progress.

The programme has proved so effective, and now popular, that booking for the spa is now required at least six months in advance.


I want you to come in the shower with me and wash me.

I want you to run your hands all over me, and I want to hear you whimper as your dick gets crushed by that tight steel chastity device.

I want you to feel my soft skin, and groan as your balls are pulled hard by the ring behind them. I want you to be in agony and ecstasy at the same time.

I want you to realise that this is all of your dreams coming true, but also an utter painful nightmare.

I’m going to relax as you pamper me, and you’re going to be going through heaven and hell.

Caption by http://clickthelock.tumblr.com

Wow, that’s intense!

simmer-until: Day 60 I can’t believe how hard I am inside this tiny cage. I can’t believe I’m ten days from smashing through last year’s record. I can’t believe she’s talking about moving the goalposts or expectation. That tease and denial is to be my pleasure. That the intense edges are what I should expect…

Make the most of every opportunity!

Don’t miss an opportunity to edge him, even if it’s just idly like this while doing something else.
More edges = hornier = better
Just make it second nature to simply tell him ‘get your cock out’. Even when you’re not in the mood, try it. Once you have your hand wrapped around his cock and hear his little frustrated horny moans you will be happy you did.

The movement she’s doing here is basically perfect. If he’s horny then the precum he produces will be enough to just keep that bit lubed indefinitely. If you run dry just give one stroke up his cock and more will seep out.

Leave him hanging…
It’s really hot to just stop sometimes, as though you’ve forgotten, leaving him there getting desperate for even the gentle touches. A cock ring makes this even more fun as he’ll stay harder longer and ache for more.

If you’re in the mood, wait till he asks for more, then say ‘if you ask again you’re going back in your cage’ – trust me, so hot. Being ignored isn’t hot, but knowing you’re doing it deliberately, amazing!

If he goes limp, tease him, ‘maybe he should just be locked up again’ (watch him get hard at that lol)

Personally I like playing with his flaccid cock too, if you’ve edged him so he’s already really sensitive, or he’s been caged a while, slow, lubed strokes and finger play that isn’t enough to get him hard will drive him absolutely crazy.

Make him do it!
And if you get bored, or really don’t want to, tell HIM to!

‘Edge your cock for me’

Or make it more productive than that:

‘Edge for me while you find me some hot tumblr posts’
or even more specific
‘Edge for me while you find me some big cocks’ 
Or whatever you’re in the mood for, sloppy blowjobs, romantic pics, mean bitches, ruined orgasms, cum shots, etc – and then you look at them while he goes down on you!

Or you can go directly to that, just have him go down on you, while he edges himself. Watch a movie, read a book, or browse Tumblr while he does. If he’s getting too excited, or just to mess with him, get him to stop sometimes and just focus on you. Then tell him to stroke it again. 

Try a dry, cleaned out condom on him to see how much precum he can produce!

Or add some variety, surprise him by throwing him dildo and some lube, he’ll think it’s for you, and sure you could do that, but even hotter to say ‘it’s for you, fuck your arse while you lick me’ (and even add ‘if you can cum from just that I’ll let you’)


“Achey, throbbing, denied cock. I love watching it twitch when it’s been on the edge for over 2 hours. I love watching your face when I deny your orgasms again and again. Just when you think I’m about to push you over, I stop at the last second each time, leaving your cock pulsating and your hips desperately thrusting in the air for some friction.”

Oh I like the use of the bondage tape there! Or just tying his hands above his head with some restraints makes it all so much hotter too!

Oh a porn star I actually know the name of! That must be like one of about four in total!
Sasha Grey (that’s probably not even spelt right).
But she’s definitely one of those few that are quite inspirational in how much they are at ease with their bodies and just enjoy what they do.


Her technique is impecable! She ruins his orgasm perfectly by gentle stimulation to the sensitive spot under the head.

From experience I can attest that ruins like these, where the cum just slowly flows out, are super frustrating and feel like they last a lifetime!


Of course you want to masturbate. That’s why I have to keep you locked in chastity.

Now get your face between my thighs and focus on *my* pleasure.