Size matters So, a bit of a niche one today but this is a very common fantasy for guys who are into chastity so maybe it’ll give you some ideas of ways to explore it. Cock size teasing… that’s the focus of today. It’s one of the more complex aspects of this whole area of…
Tag: chastity cages
Hi, great blog; it’s good to see this theme get more perspective from women. To that end, do you have anything that explains what you personally enjoy about it? A lot of women seem to find it too weird (based on the apparent number of men trying to convince their SO to play in this way), although I would have thought it would be one of the easier ‘kinks’ for women to try out! Anyway, thanks again.
Thank you! I can see why a lot of women would find it weird. I don’t think it’s so much about the cage though, the big issue for a lot of women is the underlying desire by their fella to be submissive to them, which is a whole other mindset. We got into the cage…
Locktober Day 6
It’s all been a bit intense so far so a bit of a quieter day today! I hope you’ve all set up your private blog as suggested, and today you’re both to post at least ten images you find beautiful and sexy, ten romantic images or quotes that you think the other one will like.…
Locktober Day 5
Take a chance, take a chance I hope you’re enjoying everything so far! Thanks so much for those lovely people giving me feedback, you are most appreciated! I know I keep saying it but it’s so helpful hearing back from people, so please do message me. We do things a bit differently from how chastity…
Loving the locktober ideas! Trying to do as much as poss with my bf although we don’t live togehther. We are new to this and when i edge him he often cums. Should i edge him less and just leave him caged or what? Txs xxx
Well there are a few options, yes you could edge him less and just not get him as close until he learns more self control and you learn to read his ‘signs’ better that he’s about to cum. But the major thing is that you ruin the orgasm. As soon as he starts to cum you…
Locktober Day 3
The pleasure is all yours So today you tell him he’s only going to get out of the cage if he’s pleased you throughout the day to your satisfaction. This will obviously vary according to your various work patterns etc, (I’ve picked a day hubby is working from home) but here’s the general plan. He’s…
Locktober Day 2
I’ll tell you what I want, what I really really want… I hope all went well with Day 1. Feedback is incredibly welcome, either in notes or a message! I like making this interactive. Hubby is looking adorable shaved, although I don’t want stubble burns so perhaps he’ll just have to stay that way now!…
Locktober Day 1 – the fun begins
Welcome to the first ‘Locktober’ post, a series of ideas for you to try with your man who you’re keeping in chastity. Thanks to those who have made contact, it’s most appreciated. A big encouragement if you’re even going to dabble with this, I’d love to hear from you and chat with other women doing this…
Announcing LOCKtober – who wants to join us?
So hubby and I have decided to go for another longer stint and have come up with the idea of LOCKtober. Starting tonight he’s going to be locked in a cage for the rest of the month, and that’s maybe just the start… He will not be cumming at leawt until 31st October. There may…
My wife discovered ‘penis plugs’ the other day and I wondered if you had any experience with them or thoughts to share?
I’m afraid we don’t, although I’d been wondering the same thing as the cock cages page on Lovehoney also has all their penis plugs on, so I guess there’s some link between them, and I’ve seen lots of cages with them built in. I assume it feels good? I can’t imagine there would be so many…