Take a chance, take a chance
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So, on our timetable this is Saturday’s task so it’s a bit of a longer one too (apologies if weekends aren’t good for you, you can always adapt it).
I love games of chance, so that’s the idea today. And things might get a bit more switchy at points!
So to start the day you give your caged fella a coin. At any point during the day (although you can limit it to one an hour, or every two hours or say, five goes before bedtime) he can give you the coin, and you flip it.
If it’s heads, he gets edged. If it’s tails, he has to stay in the cage and do what you want. This might be him licking you, rubbing you, massaging you, or you might just give him a job around the house or task to do!
However, if you choose him stimulating you, you’re at the mercy of the coin too. When you get close you have to toss the coin again. Heads you can cum, tails you just get edged and left horny! 🙂
What’s more, if he gets heads, he gets a very sexy edge from you. The default is to be on your knees as he stands or sits on the edge of a bed or sofa, and you use your mouth and hands to give him a really good long SINGLE edge. I’d suggest if you have a cage like ours you just leave the ring on sometimes to act like a cock ring, that’s hot in that position. If you get bored with that and he wins a few times, try getting him on all fours and stroking his cock like milking a cow, that’s hot (although the temptation to ruin him like that is for some reason HUGE so be strong, he mustn’t cum!). You can try the one where he lies on his front and his cock is down between his legs, or try varying the location, if you are free to do it anywhere try somewhere sexy like on a balcony, or in the kitchen, or if you have kids you could try him sitting on the toilet seat lid.
Either way, keep some lube handy, you want hard, fast but sexy edges.
Of course at no time does he cum, as soon as he’s had the one edge, he goes back in the cage. Maybe set no limits at first but if he’s doing it too much say ‘no more coin tosses for two hours’ – you’re still in charge.
So that’s how the day works, but come evening time, you regain more control as the game of chance continues.
Firstly, if you have something like viagra I suggest you give him one an hour or two before bedtime. The longer before of course, the more likely he is to get hard in his cage and suffer, so that’s up to you. Do be aware he shouldn’t be left too hard for too long while he’s caged as it is probably bad for his cock. If you don’t have pills a cock ring at appropriate times will do,and yes an elastic band can do nicely if not too tight.
So, bedtime again, after he’s pleased you in whatever way you want (but you aren’t allowed to cum yet) restrain him and say the game is going to continue now. Each round you are going to tell him what the heads and tails options are, and he can choose to continue, or to stop, in which case it’s over and he goes back in his cage. You don’t take him out of his cage until he gets a first heads result (unless you want to or if you’ve given him viagra etc, you need to).
- Heads – cage comes off, he gets you to grind on his cock as you wear panties; tails – he gets you to grind on his cock as you wear panties, but the cage doesn’t come off 😀
- Heads – he gets to rub his cock between your lubed breasts; tails he sucks and licks your breasts for as long as you want
- Heads he gets a handjob edge; tails you get to sit and grind on his face and he licks your clit (but no orgasm)
- Heads – hands and mouth edge for him; tails – he licks your pussy and asshole (again no cumming)
- Heads – he gets you to ride his cock; tails – you ride his cock but first you put either double condoms on him or if you have one, a penis sheathe so he can’t feel much – you can orgasm
- Heads – he gets stroked while you push a finger or toy in his bottom (I usually put a condom on my finger); tails – more clit and ass licking, but this time to orgasm (if you want to untie him so you can have him in better position that’s your call)
- Heads – he gets to fuck your ass; tails – you can either fuck his ass with a toy, a strap on, or have him lick your ass while you vibe to orgasm. If you don’t do anal and he wins, A. stop being a pussy and try it, it’s awesome (even if you just lube up loads and try to get the tip of his cock in), B. lube him and rub him against your asshole with your hand (still very hot), C. Skip this one! lol
- Heads- he gets a ruined orgasm (see note); tails – his cock and balls get tortured, smacking, squeezing and if you have it, coated with some menthol rub
Note – It depends where you are with your guy as to whether you want to actually ruin him or not. Some may be desperate enough to do it now, but on the whole I’d suggest try to avoid it even if they win. Ways to do this… lie, say they got tails and torture them anyway lol, or if you’ve already ruined them by accident this week, you edge them, ask them if they are ready to be ruined, and then stop, and say, ‘Oh you used that up earlier in the week darling, I hope you enjoyed it then’ and stop. Even if he hasn’t been ruined by accident, just change your mind when he’s on the edge! That’s your perogative!
So again, unless you think your guy really needs his balls emptying, don’t do it.
Also remember the game is that he gets to choose if the game stops (but it’s very unlikely he’d stop before challenge 7 I’d think.
You can be meaner with each round and give him time limits that he must edge by, or if after an edge or two, say his cock forfeits that round and either move onto the next OR take the Tails result instead lol
Menthol rub hurts A LOT. Once you’ve put it on there is nothing you can do to stop it. I suggest you dilute it by mixing it with some lotion, start with a little, and add more after you’ve waited at least five minutes for the effects to kick in. A good distraction is sitting on his face and making him eat you out as he suffers – well, at least it stops the whining! 😀
Obviously reading that list, both of you need good showers before 😛
A few variations: You could play the game so that the prize or forfeit only advances if the previous one was achieved, so if you got tails first round, for example, round 2 would be – heads – you grind on his cock, tails he licks your breasts – but you’ll see I’ve not really designed it that way.
Another variation – he never sees the coin result – you just tell him whichever one you want it to be each round. ‘Oh no honey, tails AGAIN?!’ lol. Of course you could do this to give him the heads results you like too!
If he gets annoyed at being denied the ruined orgasm then remind yourself this is why he’s tied up, and that this was his choice,to put you in charge. Put the cage back on him, and tell him if he acts like that again he won’t be coming out at all.
But most of all, make sure you have fun, and push yourself to try a few new things if you can,that’s what it’s all about. Don’t worry too much about the rules if you don’t want to!
Enjoy!