So if he’s sick we’d just pause it all and take the cage off till he’s better. If I’m sick, I tend to leave him in it and make the most of it once I’m feel better. For periods I don’t like him going down on me as much but with a tampon or moon…
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Locktober 2017 – Day 5
Your secret Tumblr…. The first task today is something that hubby originally suggested, and is actually how I got into Tumblr in the first place at his prompting – a shared, secret Tumblr blog for the two of you! The idea is that you can both be browsing Tumblr and when you find something that…
hello do steel ones really fall off? cause i ordered one and i want to be locked up secure
If the ring’s too big, yes. If the cage fits well it’s better, but with a bit of effort you can still pull out of most cages (you can’t take them off, but your cock can pull out the back, although you may not be able to put it back in lol). The only truly…
Locktober 2017 – Day 1
So, you should have read my long introduction already. If you haven’t then check that out for an overview, some tips and the basic rules. You should have talked those through with your partner, and agreed them and what take you want to try on the different levels of intensity. If you haven’t done that, then…
Let’s get real! (Part 1/3)
willfullydenied: “I hope your cage is nice and snug, because you’ll be spending the next six months in there!” We all know the stories. Tales and captions of mega-dominatrix women locking their men in chastity for weeks, months and days on end. For some, it may be true. As kinks progress, we find ourselves wanting…
Let’s get real (Part 2/3)
willfullydenied: To be fair, Tumblr and porn in general is very visual. A giant strapon, a chastity cage with a timer set for weeks, cum and fluids flying everywhere – these all are visceral images, easy to portray with a picture or a few words. Content is catered to the audience. If the paying audience…
Hello Jane, Long time admirer of your site. You have introduced so many fun things to our marriage, like chastity, pegging, vibrators and plugs. I’m also a big fan of being caged and plugged. I’m a little worried about a whole month since two weeks has been my longest period of chastity so far. My wife have added in a little spanking (nothing to severe) to make sure I stay in line and wonder if you and your husband have experimented with spanking. Looking forward to an exciting October. J
You’re so welcome! Thank you for the lovely encouragement xxx We do spanking, but it’s me getting spanked! And even then we end up laughing most of the time. It’s just not a thing for us, and the idea of doing it to him does nothing for either of us. The only thing anything like…
How can I tell my chastity fantasy to my wife?
Very carefully. Seriously, it’s pretty complicated, it depends on where you are with your relationship and sex life, and it’s all too easy for you to just get carried away and freak her out. I’ve had this question a lot recently so it’s prompted me to start writing out my thoughts on the subject. I’m…
Came across chastity and caging recently. It was like: Wow, so this is what I’ve been looking for all along. Shared this with the wife, and she likes the idea. Only concern that I have is potential health problems. Have you ever heard of guys developing erectile dysfunction or other problems from caging? Thank you.
Nope, the only effect seems to be if he’s in it a LONG time (a week or more) you temporarily shrink just a little bit but he’s back to full size within a day or two. I actually, kind of love the fact it shrinks him a bit now, which is crazy as I love…
What are some things to do for my wife when I’m locked up that aren’t penetrative sex or going down on her?
Rub her feet Back massage Read her a story Tidy up Vibe her and keep her on the edge Cuddle up and masturbate her with your fingers Use a dildo on her while sucking her breasts Flip her over and lick her bottom while you make her cum on a vibe Edge her and get…