What are some things to do for my wife when I’m locked up that aren’t penetrative sex or going down on her?

• Rub her feet
• Back massage
• Read her a story
• Tidy up
• Vibe her and keep her on the edge
• Cuddle up and masturbate her with your fingers
• Use a dildo on her while sucking her breasts
• Flip her over and lick her bottom while you make her cum on a vibe
• Edge her and get her to tell you her fantasies
• Go down on her (I know you said that, but do it anyway)

But really, just try books like:

101 Nights of Great Sex

101 Nights of Great Romance

For tons of ideas.

And don’t forget the classic to cover the basics:

She Comes First