It varies but probably about once every two weeks? Although occasionally we also do it when he’s not caged, I’ll leave you to imagine where his cock goes then… But yes, we both love it, honestly, sometimes him even more than me! I’ve never cum from him just fucking me, and with that on, I…
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Hello, I had a quick question about chastity devices.I was looking to get on for my BF and I really like the look of the silicone ones. However my BF is well endowed and I was wondering if you had any suggestions on where to find plastic cages larger then what seems to be the standard (CB 6000 etc) as most seem to be made smaller. Thanks!
Well firstly, lucky you 😛 That is what we call a happy problem! We’ve never used the silicon chastity devices. They all seem a bit floppy and while they’d be fun for just playing, In all the reviews/advice I’ve read, no one has recommended them for serious chastity play. I think if there was any…
How often do you tie him up for sessions of tease and denial? do you gag him too?
Probably not enough! I always forget and I need to try and remember because I know he loves it and we have under the bed restraints so it’s super easy! Just pull them out and velcro them around his wrists and taadaa, it’s added a whole extra level of kinkiness. (I also personally love the…
Thanks again for all of your advice. This blog is getting better and better. Anyway, enough of the gushing ;-) I noticed you are preparing an area for sex toy recommendations. I want to buy my Wife a wand massager as I think she will have more luck with one of those than a ‘normal’ penetrative vibrator. Do you have any advice on which one is best to get but also, more importantly, how to actually use one? She doesn’t really masturbate although her new relaxed attitude is making moves that way.
Well noticed! We have the Lovehoney own brand Magic Wand now, it’s much, much better than the classic Hitachi Magic Wand which we used to have as that one only has two power settings, High and Meltdown! Really, it’s crazy. I double checked and if you’re in the US then you need to get a…
First I would like to say thank you for all the advice you have on your blog, It has changed my life, My girlfriend and I enjoy all of it! We are wondering, can a guy wear a woman’s chastity belt, instead of a cage? She wants to really humiliate me;)
No, it’d squash all your bits to nothing or they’d poke out the sides – but you can get a chastity belt. Lovehoney have recently added some new belts as opposed to ‘cock cages’ which kind of cover you up and are more like a female belt. You could even wear a cage under it!!! That…
You seem very knowledgeable. I am new to chastity and wanted to ask your advice on sizes. I’m a grower not a shower, I am wearing a cb6000 my problem is my girth. I can barely get in the tube and the vent holes are bulging. Recommendations?
I’m not an expert on bigger cages as hubby fits a CB-6000 well but it does get narrow before it gets wider. I’d have thought you’d be better off with something like this which is the same width (all of which is bigger than the plastic ones) the whole way along: Here’s the link to…
Hi I love your blog, my boyfriend and I are interested about getting a cage but I am worried it will hurt him. Is it safe to use and can it do any damage?
Thank you! I love it too, although I’ve been super busy this week so it hasn’t got much attention. As far as our experience has been, and all I’ve read, yes, they’re very safe as long as you’re not stupid with it. The best type to get as a first cage is the CB-6000 series…
Even after reading it 100 times it still makes me so horny every single time to be reminded of the fact that she likes em’ a bit bigger than mine from time to time
Big thanks to thumper for the inspiration with the toy and the name:
http://denyingthumper.com/2013/10/27/belles-big-blue-boyfriend/
Well this seems to be the theme for today. I thought this chat log was really cute and had been looking at getting one of these ‘extension sheaths’. The twisted bit being of course he can’t feel nearly as much inside it so it definitely works with the denial side of things.
I prefer the idea of these see through ones though:
Which you can get at lovehoney, our favourite store
Hi, My husband and I are newly exploring and I’m not really sure how to pick a good beginners cage for him. Not really sure how to start the process either. We have just started experimenting with me being more dominant in the last couple of months and I often feel like I’m not sure what to do next. We haven’t gotten a cage yet but it’s something we would both like to try, any suggestions? TIA
From our experience that’s an easy one to answer. You want a plastic cage with lots of different ring and spacer size options so you can find what fits him perfectly. Go with the CB6000S or just the CB-6000 if he’s got a large cock. (Or if he’s huge The Curve or so I’ve heard).…
My girlfriend came to me with this idea today, and it was an instant turn on for me and her. But as we started talking about it, I brought up a cage and she loved it. Do you have any advice on cages? Easy to clean, material, noticeable, etc. Thanks!
Well it all depends how well endowed you are. But here’s the cages page from our favourite toy store – Lovehoney. It’s the CB6000s that we’ve been using, and hubby says he’s been amazed at hom comfy it’s been. There were a load of different sizing options on the ring that goes around your balls…