marfisa-thor: And I love to lust after you. Hah, loved the contrast between these too. I hadn’t ever considered a spiked cage as anything I’d use but the idea of putting him in one and then making him watch porn as a behaviour modification is kinda sexy!
Tag: male orgasm denial
So mean, so fun…
So hubby had been out a few days and I decided to find a way to get him back in his cage, and have some fun being mean. In the morning I woke before him and leaned over and started playing with his cock to wake him up, and then went down and sucked on…
We used a cage recently for a couple of weeks and I loved it especially, and my bf did too I think but like your husband he’s quite dominant most of the time and isn’t that keen on the idea or at least doesn’t want to say he is. I loved all the attention and pussy eating I got when he was in it, and how obsessed with me he got. Any ideas on how to convince him back into it? Thank you!!!!!!
OH that’s a really interesting one! I think I might be really naughty and trick him into it! If you guys have safewords which I assume you do, he can always tell you he wants out, but… yeah I bet hubby would find it super sexy for me to initiate him being in it. So,…
This is so true, I’ve never had so much oral sex until we started caging him up. At first felt guilty about it but he kept telling me that it was hot to be made to go down on me and just focus on my pleasure, not even knowing if he’ll get any. So I’ve taken him at his word and tell him I want him to lick me all the time now, it’s amazing!
He will tell you if he doesn’t want to, he’ll tell you if his tongue is tired, stop making excuses that don’t exist. He gets aroused by you being horny, wanting pleasure, and telling him you want it.
So try it, ‘I’m horny honey, come and lick me’ – he will love it!
And for some reason he tells me it’s really hot if I do something else sometimes, like read a book, or watch a movie (I already mentioned how me watching porn he can’t see while he does this drives him CRAZY! lol), so try those too!
Just be aware he’ll slowly be able to go longer and longer, if he’s new to it five or ten minutes is all he’ll be able to do before he needs to use fingers or a toy. Nowadays hubby goes down on me for half an hour or more and I cum a few times at least.
You talked about watching porn together while he’s caged. Love this idea! Looked at the x-art and didn’t like much of it tho, any other recommendations? Thanks!
Thanks, I love questions like this. I just looked at x-art too and you’re right, the stuff on their website doesn’t look nearly as nice as the older stuff hubby found for me. Youporn.com has a ‘female friendly’ category but just checked that and didn’t think it was great either. Why not start with tumblr, something…
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