When I first read about tease and denial it was originally all of my husband’s idea. I was not really into taking the lead but seeing how much it made him happy I went for it. Not to mention in the long run, our relationship got so much better. He helped with cooking and cleaning and went out of his way to be sweet to me and make me happy. If only I started this years ago. And I get him so built up and excited that when I finally untie him he gives me the dominant breath-taking orgasms that I love. The only downside was the idea that I would have to spend hours a day, everyday, having sex. Who has that kind of time when you work and have a family?
That’s when I realized a few minutes a day of teasing is all that is needed. That’s totally do-able now that he is helping around the house. One thing I came to realize and really enjoy was just how much my man would do for a release. I love seeing him beg. When you think he really needs to cum, make him wait longer. Men do not need to cum everyday. They can go weeks and even months without orgasms. Think about it, have you ever gone a week without having sex with your man? Even longer perhaps? Nothing bad happened to him or his little guy. If anything he probably had a great orgasm because it’s been so long. The more you tease him, the better. Talk to him. Have him open up to you. What does he like, what does he not.
Tonight you will play a game of truth or dare in bed. Your ultimate goal is to get him to open up about his deepest fantasies. Obviously, the more you play with him and tease him, the more he will tell. Now don’t worry if you don’t like all of his fantasies. That’s not the point of the game. Just try to get info out of him that we can use for later days. Sample questions: (A MUST – Ask him how big is his dick? Don’t let him know but we will be using this info tomorrow against him hehehe) Also, don’t open up with that question, get him hot and bothered first and then ask him that. Other ideas, his favorite position? What’s his favorite body part of yours? His favorite outfit of yours? How often or last time he masterbated? His favorite fantasy? Does he like the idea of a threesome?
Sample dares: go down on you, suck your toes, lick your butt, find a porn video that he really enjoys and show you, and (THE MUST for tonight is to get him to try on your panties). Wait what!? Yes that’s right, grab your sexiest pair (or even better the ones you are wearing right now) and force him to put them on. If he refuses the game is over and it’s time to go to bed. If he is willing then the game can continue. When he puts them on, make sure to tell him how surprised you are on how well they fit. “Wow I’m surprised you fit in them? They look actually kind of sexy on you. I love how you can be so manly but at the same time your little guy looks so nice in my lacy thong”
Now I know what you are thinking. Why the hell would I want him wearing a thong? Well relax it’s not going to turn him gay. Take note that with your sexy panties on him, he will be rock hard. Also, it will show him that you are in charge and you can make him do just about anything for a release. The power shift has begun and you will become a leader and he will love you for it. Plus it’s funny and fun so relax and just go with it.
End tonight with no release for him. Sorry little guy 🙁 Obviously orgasm for you or whatever you are in the mood for. Now he is going to be a big whiner at this point so make a deal with him. If he is willing to wear your panties for the rest of the night and sleep in them, you promise he will cum tomorrow. Stay firm and don’t let him finish tonight. Trust me he will thank you for it down the road.