Of course he does! It’s just a fantasy. I felt bad about stuff like that for a long time but finally, probably with Tumblr’s help actually, realised it didn’t mean we had to do things in real life. What really helped was us both treating it as a hot game. I’d lying there edging him,…
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Hi Jane, love the blog, thanx so much! We got into chastity play a couple of yers ago and it’s mostly been great but things haven’t happened the last couple of months and I wondered what you’d advise? I’ve suggested caging him back up but he’s not seemed too botthered? Thanks in advance, Sam.
Hi Sam – you’re very welcome and don’t worry we all go through ups and downs. It was a few years ‘down’ after we had kids that led us to even exploring stuff like this. So chastity is a bit like magic, even if they aren’t feeling in the mood, just doing it makes them start…
Based on your recommendation, I purchased a stainless steel chastity cage similar to the Arc. It arrived today, and went on. It’s simultaneously hot and frightening and very, very arousing.
That’s so great, congratulations! Welcome to a whole new world lol
Wait, did you honestly told a friend about your husband’s predicament on your own? Jesus, unless this is something you discussed with your husband beforehand, that is an inexcusable breach of trust. Way to be the stereotypical gossiping woman who cant keep private things private. If my wife did that to me it would come pretty close to being a divorceable offense. Absolutely unacceptable.
Holy shit, where do you get off judging me and jumping to assumptions? Of course we discussed in advance you arrogant prick. It took a LOT of guts to work up to talking about it with her. Really, could you come across as more of an asshole? It sounds like your wife should look for ‘divorcable…
Did you ever tell your girlfriend that you lock you husbands cock in a cage? If yes, what was her thoughts/reaction? His thoughts/reaction?
I did actually! I thought I wrote about it but I can’t find it. She really didn’t know what to think. It was quite funny. She thought I was making it up as a joke to begin with. When i showed her the key I had with me she still didn’t believe it. It got…
Do you live in cali?
No we’re English
How does a vasectomy affect male chastity since he never expels any sperm anymore? Will a man with a vasectomy still get the same physical and emotional pleasures that one who can shoot real bullets gets?
Well, a vasectomy stops sperm, but that’s only a small part of cum (2-5%). Most of it is made up of seminal fluid, which is still produced and is what jets out, so no, I don’t think it’ll make a difference. But you’d be better reading up on it on proper medical websites, i’m not…
Hopefully it’s not to personal but I’m just curious about your husband’s measurements (hard and soft). Also have you ever considered using a Mature Metal cage like the Jailbird?
‘If it’s not too personal how big is your husband’s penis?’ lol It’s perfectly average. And no, we haven’t considered a Mature Metal or similar device because they’re so expensive and we can’t see how that’s justified over the cages we use already, which aren’t custom fitted but look and feel great already. If they…
I was just wondering what chastity device you use?
Hi there, We have lots of cages but we have two that are our favourites at the moment. They are both from Toys4NaughtyBoys – The Arc: (we take out the insert) and The Tight Squeeze. They are both super comfortable, hubby can wear the indefinitely now he’s got used to it, and I think they…
Hey! Do you have any tips for cages for men with large-ish flacid penises? My hubby is a shower, not a grower. We already bought two cages that didn’t fit, which is a waste of money, and the only other option I could find is having one custom made. Seeing as we already spent quite some cash on this, we’re not jumping to have that done. We’re talking 4.5 cm inner cage size and 14 cm lenght here. Thnx a lot! – a mutual orgasm denying couple.
Lots of questions on this recently. Firstly lucky you! So, if you want a plastic one then the same company who make the CB-6000s I’ve just recommended also make ‘The Curve’ which is much bigger. Don’t forget that a good silicone lube will help slide him in it comfortably. Also read up on the stocking trick…