Aww thank you! I really do appreciate that. I write these really fast (I talk really fast too lol) so excuse any mistakes! We started last Saturday, so that would make today day 11 I guess (maths is not my strong point 😛 ) And yes this is the longest ever for us. We use…
I just found this blog on Tumblr and it’s definitely got a higher than average collection of chastity captions that turn me on!
This reminded me of a fun thing we do which is browse or shop for sexy outfits, nightwear and lingerie when he’s caged or being edged.
I love corsets so Corset Story is a favourite but they don’t have models wearing the clothes so not so great as a tease but it means he has to imagine me in them 😛
Lovehoney is our favourite toy store but they also have a great lingerie and sexy costumes area. They aren’t super classy but good for kinky stuff
Lingerie.co.uk is better for classy lingerie
Bluebella is lovely too, with some beautiful things.
Yandy.com is totally ridiculous with outfits and tiny dresses and costumes – Oh I wish I still fitted most of them, but hot to look at and get ideas
Thank you! Please do ask questions though, I find it much easier to answer stuff than come up with ideas from nothing – or just suggestions on what to write about are super useful! xxx
Oh this is a very good question and yes, don’t worry, we’ve had exactly this and there’s quite a few things you can do about it. Firstly the problem may be you’re trying to get him too close each time, this takes a LONG time to learn how to do without making him go over…
Love this!
We’ve not tried this, I’ve touched by vibe to his cage but I’m not sure it would make him cum, I’ll have to try! and ruin it of course 😀
It really has worked to ‘free up the deepest parts of my sexuality’ with my hubby, which is quite surprising, but we’re both loving it.
(And yikes those are quite the pair of boobs!)
This is so true, I’ve never had so much oral sex until we started caging him up. At first felt guilty about it but he kept telling me that it was hot to be made to go down on me and just focus on my pleasure, not even knowing if he’ll get any. So I’ve taken him at his word and tell him I want him to lick me all the time now, it’s amazing!
He will tell you if he doesn’t want to, he’ll tell you if his tongue is tired, stop making excuses that don’t exist. He gets aroused by you being horny, wanting pleasure, and telling him you want it.
So try it, ‘I’m horny honey, come and lick me’ – he will love it!
And for some reason he tells me it’s really hot if I do something else sometimes, like read a book, or watch a movie (I already mentioned how me watching porn he can’t see while he does this drives him CRAZY! lol), so try those too!
Just be aware he’ll slowly be able to go longer and longer, if he’s new to it five or ten minutes is all he’ll be able to do before he needs to use fingers or a toy. Nowadays hubby goes down on me for half an hour or more and I cum a few times at least.
This is how we’re playing it now, it’s very sexy. I’m not sure what a ‘conditional unlock is’ but it inspires me to think of the idea of unlocking him once he’s restrained, and edging him for ages, promising him his long awaited orgasm. But then, right on the edge, saying something like, ‘Actually darling, I’ve enjoyed this so much, I want you in for longer. So, if you want to cum then I want you to ask me to lock you up for another two weeks, and if you don’t want to cum then I’ll just lock you up again with no orgasm, until you change your mind’