Some jobs won’t allow you to do it, athough some of the metal cages now are really good and very comfortable (see our reviews, and more new reviews coming this month too!). The alternative is just lock up when you get home, no problem with that either! Whatever works for you is good!
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Hello Jane, Thank you for doing this again, we are so excited about Locktober starting, and yes after coming three time yesterday, I’m locked up, now for the long month like you guys. It’s a little of nervousness as I have only been locked for two weeks, so this is a push. Surprisingly my wife is also excited about this month and trying new things. John
Hi John, yes very similar to us! We’re not sure how it’ll go either and honestly if we’re not having fun we’ll just change how we do it. But the concept is exciting and very interested to see how it becomes after about the ten day point knowing that’s only a third of the way!!!…
Hi! I just wanted to start off saying that I really love your blog! It’s what got my boyfriend and I into chastity in the first place, and thank you for that because it has done nothing but good. Therefore, when we couldn’t decide how long he should stay locked this time, we thought we’d ask our inspiration for their input! So: how long should he be locked for (his last was a month if that helps, but we aren’t against going longer), and should his next orgasm be full or ruined? Thank you!
OH how lovely to be asked, what fun! Well we have Locktober coming up so how about next week in the run up, you unlock him this weekend, and he has to try to ruin as many orgasms as you can, or he can do it or share the job. If he manages 7 ruins…
I saw your post and agree with so many of the effects you describe, although we’re only just starting out! One I’ve struggled with though, is porn, specifically lesbian scenes are a turn off (but so common!) – any advice or thoughts? Thanks! Sarah
Hi Sarah, Good question! Girl on girl sex in porn is so common that if you enjoy watching any together sometimes (and personally I love that if it’s good) it’d not be a bad thing to at least work on it not being a turn off. I think it’s partly just getting used to it.…
Hi Jane, your’re doing marvellously well with your blog, thank you For being so awesome and to involve all of us. Unfortunatly i’ve just broken with my gf, but i’d Like to ask you: can i take part in Locktober anyway? I hope it’s not against your rules! Best wishes for the following month! Claudio
Thanks Claudio, it’s fun sharing the joy, and sorry to hear about your break up. I’m sure some things will be applicable but I’m writing it for us so it’s mostly couple oriented. Maybe next time I’ll add single specific options! Jane xxx
Hello Jane, Long time admirer of your site. You have introduced so many fun things to our marriage, like chastity, pegging, vibrators and plugs. I’m also a big fan of being caged and plugged. I’m a little worried about a whole month since two weeks has been my longest period of chastity so far. My wife have added in a little spanking (nothing to severe) to make sure I stay in line and wonder if you and your husband have experimented with spanking. Looking forward to an exciting October. J
You’re so welcome! Thank you for the lovely encouragement xxx We do spanking, but it’s me getting spanked! And even then we end up laughing most of the time. It’s just not a thing for us, and the idea of doing it to him does nothing for either of us. The only thing anything like…
Will you be doing locktober again this year?
We will indeed. The plan this time is to update content from last year, but add different levels, with more beginner options where appropriate, plus a ‘Full lockdown’ version where he’s caged up the entire month! (That’s what we’re going to try, hubby’s nervous!). If anyone has any other thoughts on what they’d like to see…
Does your hubby enjoy anal play (receiving end)? I’m considering surprising my hubby with a butt plug, but I’m not sure how it’ll go while he’s caged.
It goes really well! Unlike us, men actually have the prostate up there and so with some practise, most of them can even cum from the right stimulation up their bum! You have to get one that fits well though. Not too thin or it feels like it’s slipping out all the time. We have…
What are some things to do for my wife when I’m locked up that aren’t penetrative sex or going down on her?
Rub her feet Back massage Read her a story Tidy up Vibe her and keep her on the edge Cuddle up and masturbate her with your fingers Use a dildo on her while sucking her breasts Flip her over and lick her bottom while you make her cum on a vibe Edge her and get…
I would like to explore male chastity and my wife has agreed to it. But I was thinking, is wearing such a device completely safe?
Yes, as long as you get a good fit, the consensus seems to be it’s absolutely fine. We’ve been trying it for a few years now and seen no ill effects, and many on places like The Chastity Mansion have been wearing them for MUCH longer. The main issue is finding the right cage for…