Have you read this blog? We did that for ten years… and still do sometimes! Google ‘female orgasm denial’ it’s awesome!
Thank you so much for sharing your blog and especially your dynamic. My partner also describes herself as adventurous but primarily submissive, and what you describe resonates with our switch dynamic. She is not interested in establishing a FLR, but she was supportive of our exploring chastity play and has slowly begun to embrace its benefits. We are still working at finding the balance. I will share your gmail address with her and I hope she contacts you to correspond. Robert