Kind of just answered some of this but the longest we did was 6 weeks and honestly no, shorter is more fun most of the time, we average two weeks I guess, but it’s hugely varied depending on who’s taking the lead and what games we’re playing. Long lock ups are a challenge, which we like, and interesting from seeing the phases he goes through, but doing it too often would just get boring for us.
Hello! Really love your blog. My boyfriend suggested this to me a month ago, and after I got over my surprise and tried it, my sex life (and orgasms!) has improved tenfold. I love how he desires me more and more, but I control how the sex goes! That said, he’s gotten way better with his mouth than he ever was with his cock, and my dildo is honestly better anyway, so I have no desire to unlock him. How often does he *need* to cum, and can I train him to need it less and less? Thanks!