missharpersworld:
Month: March 2016
Sings…
‘Well shake it up baby now,
Twist and shout’
‘Come on honey, sing along! I might even ruin you.’
Bottom to top. Slowly, I drag it out. I feel his cock harden while it strains under my touch. My soft warm tongue runs up his length, and then I stall a little more. His body instinctively moves towards my lips in need.
I start all over from the bottom again. I make a slow trail to the top with my tongue and finally my tongue circles the head. A moan escapes his lips as he feels that amazing sensation that causes shivers to run down his spine. That sensation that makes him want more. Makes him want ME.
As he is relishing in the moment of pure bliss, I deep throat him completely, taking him by complete surprise. His eyes widen in shock and the head of his cock is firmly down my throat. Life is meant to be full of surprises, like this one…
Oh honey I’d love to do this to you right now.
Shame you’re locked up…
“Morning Wood” Tease Routine
This routine is perfect after 5-14 days of intense edging and denial. At least 5 days, because you need him at the level of frustration where he’s waking up with reliable, rock-hard morning wood, every day. Probably not a good routine after more than 14 days of denial, because this allows him to touch and (if you permit) edge himself, which can strain his willpower, and you don’t want him to fail in his own hands. After 14 days, I personally avoid games that allow him to touch himself – I tie him down and do most of the handywork myself, to keep any “accidents” to a minimum. And if he’s going to fail, I prefer to have him fail in my hands, so I can control whether to ruin him or not. Anyway…
This routine is best for a lazy, no-obligations weekend morning. It takes around half an hour. Or, depending on your mood, it can go much longer.
Get out of bed before he wakes up. Get your coffee, brush your teeth, center yourself – do whatever you usually do for yourself in the morning to wake yourself up and make you feel like “you.” You want to be fully awake and energized, because you will be exploiting the fact that he wakes up groggy and confused.
Dress casual-bedroom-sexy. That might be panties + t-shirt. Or maybe your softest pj pants + slippers + bra. Or maybe just that huge hockey jersey you like. Whatever makes you feel comfortable and sexy. Save the uncomfortable black lacy butt-floss for another time… imho.
Wake him gently, warmly, with kisses and maybe a good, firm snuggle. Ask how he slept. Bask together in the morning light. Run your hands over each others’ bodies. Escalate slowly. If he didn’t have “morning wood” already, he will now.
Ask him, “Did you dream about me?”
Shush him before he can answer, then slowly crawl your hand down his body to his cock. There’s your answer!
Act surprised – mildly scandalized. Push away and hop out of bed. Yank the blankets all the way down past his feet, leaving him totally exposed. If he tries to get up, order him to stay, flat on his back. Tell him you want to “see it.” If he’s wearing underwear, pull it off. “Show me!”
Tell him, “Well if that’s what you want – let’s go, stud! Right now!”
While standing bedside, get your bottle of lube, take his hand, and pour a lot more than usual into his palm. (every couple keeps lube nearby, right?) Tell him to “get it ready for me – nice and slippery!”
It’s important that you hold the lube bottle, not him. And you pour it into his hand, not onto his body. This forces him to lube his cock with his own hand – essentially stroking himself, while you stand over him and watch. Feel free to touch yourself, if watching him makes you hot. But no matter how thoroughly he lubes himself, smile, tell him “More – I want you really wet!”, and pour more lube into his hand.
You can be crafty to convince him it’s necessary. You can fib like, “I just woke up, so I’m really dry. I need you extra, super slippery or it’ll hurt… No… A lot more slippery than that… Really cover everything. Work it in there… Every inch… Here, use both hands…” (more lube)
When he’s so soaked in lube that you can’t plausibly get away with giving him any more, tell him you’re not convinced. Tell him to make a tight fist. “Tighter.” Then make him “prove” how slippery he is by fucking his fist. “No, harder… Faster… Fuck it like it’s me… Show me… I’m not convinced… Clench tighter… Show me exactly how hard you plan to fuck me…”
Congratulations! You now have an edged, teased, and 5+ day denied man in your bed, on his back, wrecking himself at your command. At this point, you can drop the pretense. You both know it’s a game; this is part of his tease – but he still doesn’t know what you have planned next. You got him started with the promise of sex – he’s still hoping it’s true. He’ll keep wrecking himself, fucking his slippery fist as hard as you want, as long as he thinks there’s a chance you might finish him.
So talk to him. Tell him to keep going. Kneel by the bedside and touch yourself. Wet your fingers and let him suck them. Enjoy the show, as long as you like! Let him edge, if you feel like it. Or not.
Then, abruptly, get up and walk away. “Okay, stop. That was fun! Get dressed.
Maybe later, I’ll finish what you started…”
This is the part that really tests his willpower. He’s on his back, near the edge, and release is in his own hands. But if he’s strong and wise (and if there’s a glimmer of hope in his future!) he will obey. And his brain will be buzzing, all day long, with thoughts of what you did to him that morning. A perfect way to start the weekend!!
Another fabulous idea from HSM – it’s rapidly becoming my favourite blog!
So is your man pretty much locked up 24×7 these days? And how often do you let him have a full orgasm? Just curious about your set-up these days! Great blog, the best on the net…
Hi, no, well, he’s been in it a lot the last two weeks, but had most of the weekend off. But he’s in the cage just because, well we both fancied it. We did a pretty intense lock up in Jan, but then had about a month where we didn’t use it much at all,…
I Edge My Husband…
beautifulsecrets42: I edge my husband because: -It’s what his body wants, whether his mind knows it or not-It’s more pleasurable for him to be edged and denied than for him to cum – simple biology-I can do this every day, and he’ll stay aroused and excited every time-He makes the sexiest noises when I edge…
Have you ever tried adding erotic hypnotic audio to the mix? Either for yourself or to keep him extra horny?
No… haven’t really had any experience with it. How would it help me?
Teasing Outside The Bedroom
The bedroom is not the only place where I tease my beloved husband. In fact, teasing outside the bedroom is a huge and essential part of our play.
I’ll start, though, with things we don’t do:
- We’re both adults, we deeply respect each other, and (in marriage) we’re on the same team. So I would never do anything to humiliate him in public. That hurts both of us, imho. That includes never telling my girlfriends that I control and deny him. I tell them he’s a stud… which he fucking is. That’s all they need to know.
- I’m also not into the cuckold fantasies you see online, so I never use other men to tease him. I actually think it’s hotter for him to know, without a doubt, that I expect him, and only him, to provide ALL of my pleasure and satisfaction, forever. My happiness is his lifelong challenge – I consider it part of his wedding vow. Conversely, my vow is that I will always and only use him for my fulfillment. He is my rock. I don’t need any other rocks.
But hey, if you’re into public humiliation or cuckold fantasies, there are plenty of blogs out there for you. Do your thing, and have fun with it!
Now here’s a list of some of my favorite tricks for teasing my husband outside the bedroom:
- My favorite, simple, oldie-but-goldie trick is to just grab his crotch through his pants, hold on, and rub a little – just enough to trigger his memory of what my hands can do. With firm eye contact, I do this discreetly (duh!) both in private and in crowds. In a crowd, it becomes a minor predicament for him, because it forces him to make some “adjustments,” which I get a kick out of. (note how that’s different, though, from openly humiliating him)
- Suck his finger(s), with steady eye contact. So simple. So effective! I just take his hand, form a pointing finger from his fist, and slide it slowly into my mouth. The innuendo is obvious. His reaction is adorable, every time.
- Dressing up / dressing down. My husband has a “thing” for yoga pants, yoga shorts, tennis skirts, high socks, and sports bras – basically, fitness clothes. Every guy on Earth has his “thing.” Know your guy’s thing. Use it!
- Text messages! This is huge. Like most normal people, I sometimes have more courage in writing than I do when speaking. Also like normal people, my husband and I spend most of the day apart, working normal jobs. This makes sexy texting a priceless part of tease-play. When do I text? Simple: after a night of edging, I always sext him the next day to keep his heat up. Always! Even if it’s a weekend and he’s sitting right next to me – I still make sure to sext him at least once. What do I say? Most of my sexts fall into four simple categories: 1) encouragement and positive reinforcement, like “Great job last night, baby!”; 2) hints of future teasing, like “Round three tonight. Be ready!”; 3) playfully dangling a prize beyond his reach, like “Wow I’m so wet right now… Too bad you’re at work!”; or 4) a cryptic string of suggestive emojis for his imagination to decipher. Personally, I’m not big into roleplaying via text (like “I slip the cuffs around your ankles, and then I…”) but I know many people are – so, that’s an idea, too.
- Whip it out. Technically it’s “outside the bedroom,” but I’m not sure if this counts. Anyway, in private, I tell him to sit still, then I just reach over, unfasten his pants, whip it out, and play a little. I might do this in the car, while we sit in a fast-food drive thru. Or on the couch, during football. Or as a reward for watching a chick-flick with me. The “play” can be very simple – I like to hold him tight and squeeze rhythmically (no strokes, just squeezes, so my arm doesn’t get tired) which, if I do it long enough, builds an edge so incredibly sloooow that it’s brainlessly easy for me to control and maintain it, once he’s close. One time, on an airplane, I covered his lap with a blanket and did exactly that to him for the entire flight! (the Denial-High Club? Okay… bad pun, sorry!) While he was sweating and clenching his armrests, I could still enjoy my magazine with my free hand, and I nonchalantly asked for his opinion on some articles and made him sniff the fold-out perfume pages, like no big deal. It was super fun for both of us – he still talks about it!
- Make him collect mysterious props. I looove this trick! It’s as simple as saying (or texting), “Hey, while you’re at the store, get some Gatorade and a bag of ice for tonight. Thanks!” It can literally be any random shit. “Hey, can you get my tennis racket from the car?… Yeah, leave it by the bed. Thanks baby!” Sometimes I have a real plan for the items. Sometimes I don’t. Either way, let his imagination do the teasing.
- Lip-reading or sign language. In the middle of a party or dinner with friends, you can silently mouth or signal something simple, clear, and sexy from across the room or across the table, just to tease him. “Fuck” is dead easy to lip-read, and (as far as I know) an informal hand-sign for sex looks like two scissors, lying flat, doing missionary. So a real-world example I discreetly mouthed to my husband at a dinner was: “I. (point at myself) Will. Fuck. (flat scissor) You. (point at him) Hard. (fist, wink)” He loved it!
- Tumblr. Yup! This place is loaded with sexy pictures, gifs, captions, and great ideas in writing – making it an obvious tool for teasing. You can forward or copy stuff to his phone or his email, just to keep up his heat. Or you can make it more interactive. Send him three hot gifs of men pleasuring women in three different ways, plus the simple-yet-ominous command “Pick one.” Or tell him to send three to you, for you to pick one. Or send him on a kinky scavenger hunt. (”Hold my vibe against your cock, on full power, and find me 5 gifs of men being ruined and 5 gifs of women climaxing. Don’t cum. They must be gifs I’ve never seen before. You can stop the vibe when I reply to your email, but I won’t reply if the gifs aren’t good enough.”) Get creative!
Those are just a few ideas. There are endless other possibilities, limited only by your imagination! If any readers have more ideas or personal stories of teasing outside the bedroom, please reply and share!
And always remember to have fun!
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