Your reader who is looking at chastity as a “She’ll eventually cave in,” probably fell for the me-me-me trap. Our discussions early on weren’t a negotiation or an one-sided list of wants; more a discussion about pragmatism, the reason it appealed to me, why it might appeal to her, and delineation of the D/s-FLR concept. She’s a doll, but giving up control in the bedroom also meant not topping from the bottom. Maybe that’ll help that reader. Cheers! — Merrylander