Ruined Orgasm vs Abandoned Orgasm


Examining the different ways that you can release semen… and the differences between an ABANDONED ORGASM and a RUINED ORGASM.

Here we see a classic example of an ABANDONED orgasm.  You can clearly see she is stroking quite vigorously with two hands and only stops right at the very end, after he has already begun to orgasm.  This was likely a very pleasurable experience for him, and after he cums he is going to go into a refractory period and be tender, and lose that wonderful “built up” feeling altogether.  This is NOT WHAT YOU WANT.

This is MUCH better! Notice too how in this video the male is completely reclined, and very relaxed. She is barely touching him, just using one hand and releasing well before you see any semen at all.  This means that she’s stopped touching him at the very onset of his ejaculation, possibly even before, and his body is just carrying things forward at this point.  Moments later you see his semen come up slowly, without any spurting, and just dribble out onto his chest.  The cock doesn’t twitch much, meaning that he is not contracting his muscles or trying to stop anything from happening – he’s just letting it happen, letting it all come out.  THIS IS A RUINED ORGASM.  THIS IS WHAT YOU WANT.  He will continue to feel frustrated and retain all of that pent up sexual energy, ready for more fun later at the drop of a hat.  


It may be necessary or required of you to have a prostate massage instead.  This is also a very effective means of releasing semen, and does so without orgasm.  With enough direct manual massage to the prostate you can literally push the semen up and out.  She’s being very kind and holding his penis, but it is not necessary.  This can be done while he is soft OR hard, and does not require really anything of him except to be there.  The more he relaxes the easier and quicker the massage will be.  Sometimes electrical stimulation or vibration is used on the prostate as well by inserting a massaging vibrator or something like an Aneros massager.

How to minimise the pleasure and still give them release – mean, and hot.

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