What an interesting thought! It’s true, it’s a real trade off between wanting it but the reality never living up to what you wanted. If I let hubby cum it’s just a few seconds of pleasure, compared to an ongoing thrill of being denied, that I know he loves.
Don’t get me wrong, I do love making him cum. I love the noises he makes. I love watching him spurt. And so I do sometimes, because I want to.
But when I’m tempted, for HIS sake, to let him cum, I need to remember, denial is better, better for us both. Denial is better. That’s the reality.