I guess that means it’s not really “play,” then, either?
Actually, I like the term ‘Chastity play’ and I think you guys need to embrace it more. Yes, yes, I know, you don’t like it being referred to so lightly but that’s EXACTLY what most of the women you want to get involved actually need, to feel it’s not some kind of super serious fetish but something fun and kinky to try out.
Once we feel the buzz of the power it gives us and see the improvements in your attitude, we may well take it further. But my advice until then, use ‘Chastity play’ a lot in the way you describe it, it makes it far more accessible.