The time to ask him… just as you’re starting to edge him. Get him to tell you just what he’ll do to be allowed that orgasm. And then ask, ‘And would it be even better if I did that, and still didn’t let you cum?’
We’re trying out denial without a cage first to see what we think, and loving it so far but we have the problem that when I edge him he often goes over. I know to stop and so he ruins it but I’d rather he didnt at all. Any tips?