Thanks so much for Locktober!! We tried spoon pegging and both enjoyed it. We had a great time and learned a lot and I beginning to thinkthe ruined cums are just as good or better than full cums. I definitely feel better after a ruin cum. My energy level, personality, and drive are so much higher. I don’t think my wife will ever allow me a full cum again:) I have a Holy Trainer 2 which I love, but we have ordered the metal one you recommended to see if I can go with removing it every day.