Thanks so much! Well, originally when I was the one being denied, hubby used it as an excuse to go ‘anal only’ which drove me crazy and… yeah I kind of loved – trust me I was as surprised as anyone. Nowadays when it’s me getting the lion’s share of the orgasms I tend to use…
When buying a cage what is the best option? One to allow a lot of growth. Small amount of growth. Or no growth at all. Tks.
Hi there. In our experience you want to allow no room for growth, it should be a nice snug fit when they aren’t aroused at all. I guess you could get a long one that they’d grow fully into, but they don’t tend to be designed that way, most go down, and penises try to…
Make the most of every opportunity!
Don’t miss an opportunity to edge him, even if it’s just idly like this while doing something else.
More edges = hornier = better
Just make it second nature to simply tell him ‘get your cock out’. Even when you’re not in the mood, try it. Once you have your hand wrapped around his cock and hear his little frustrated horny moans you will be happy you did.
The movement she’s doing here is basically perfect. If he’s horny then the precum he produces will be enough to just keep that bit lubed indefinitely. If you run dry just give one stroke up his cock and more will seep out.
Leave him hanging…
It’s really hot to just stop sometimes, as though you’ve forgotten, leaving him there getting desperate for even the gentle touches. A cock ring makes this even more fun as he’ll stay harder longer and ache for more.
If you’re in the mood, wait till he asks for more, then say ‘if you ask again you’re going back in your cage’ – trust me, so hot. Being ignored isn’t hot, but knowing you’re doing it deliberately, amazing!
If he goes limp, tease him, ‘maybe he should just be locked up again’ (watch him get hard at that lol)
Personally I like playing with his flaccid cock too, if you’ve edged him so he’s already really sensitive, or he’s been caged a while, slow, lubed strokes and finger play that isn’t enough to get him hard will drive him absolutely crazy.
Make him do it!
And if you get bored, or really don’t want to, tell HIM to!
‘Edge your cock for me’
Or make it more productive than that:
‘Edge for me while you find me some hot tumblr posts’
or even more specific
‘Edge for me while you find me some big cocks’
Or whatever you’re in the mood for, sloppy blowjobs, romantic pics, mean bitches, ruined orgasms, cum shots, etc – and then you look at them while he goes down on you!
Or you can go directly to that, just have him go down on you, while he edges himself. Watch a movie, read a book, or browse Tumblr while he does. If he’s getting too excited, or just to mess with him, get him to stop sometimes and just focus on you. Then tell him to stroke it again.
Try a dry, cleaned out condom on him to see how much precum he can produce!
Or add some variety, surprise him by throwing him dildo and some lube, he’ll think it’s for you, and sure you could do that, but even hotter to say ‘it’s for you, fuck your arse while you lick me’ (and even add ‘if you can cum from just that I’ll let you’)
Hiya – inspiring tumblr, ty! So were really enjoying exploring all this but my boyfriend keeps cumming when Im edging him. I do ruin it but I dont want him to at all. Any tips? TY! Zoe
Hiya Zoe, Yes this is often an issue but it’s pretty easily fixed with a few things. And it’s actually really important as you want him to really feel you’re in charge of him getting his release for not only the full balls to happen, which is super hot, but also for his horniness to…
So there’s lots of places where you can get good advice on GIVING oral sex, but I thought it’d be useful to give some advice on how to RECEIVE it and make it all the hotter!
Hot things to SAY while he’s going down on you:
- Your tongue’s so much better than your cock
- You lick me so much better when you’re locked up
- This feels so good, I don’t even want to let your little dick out
- Oh god, I wish you could fuck me now, shame you’re caged up
- Oh if you had a big cock I’d want you to fuck me so hard right now
- Tongue fuck me, lick up the mess I’m making
- Suck on my clit, I want to cum on your face
And in general just moaning loudly and saying how good it feels! Yes, overdo the moaning, he loves it and being vocal, even if it’s faked a bit, makes it feel even better.
Hot things to DO while he’s going down on you:
- Start playing with your breasts, really enjoy how they feel, rub, pull, squeeze even suck on them if you can.
- Pick up a book or put on some porn to watch, make it clear you’re in no hurry!
- Give him a toy to use in you, or tell him to finger fuck you – give him directions, it’s so hot!Run your fingers through his hair then push him on you harder
- Grab his hair and grind on his face as you cum (seriously, try this)
- Lift your knees up and spread them wide so your pussy is really exposed
- Roll over on your tummy and make it clear he’s to lick your bottom
- TELL HIM to make you cum, don’t just wait for him. When you want it, tell him, make him give you an orgasm, then have some more!
- Kiss him afterwards and taste yourself on his tongue, no holding back, it’s super sexy
Sex tips from KeepHimCaged.tumblr.com – got any other good ones? Add a note!
We just got a cage and are loving it, thank you for the inspiration! How often should I be letting him out and teasing him do you think?
Good question! I’m so glad you’re having fun with all this, it’s fab isn’t it. So firstly the more we do this the more I’m trying teasing WITHOUT letting him out, so do try that too! That’s mostly things like secretly grabbing his cage during the day, or sliding up behind him and rubbing his…
If you haven’t tried it, having him on the bed or sofa and kneeling next to him is a remarkably sexy position that gives you an awful lot of control – especially when he’s tied up!