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This is a really hot position to edge him from. His mouth pleasuring your clit and pussy you can just take as long as you want playing with his cock, using your lubed hands and mouth to drive him crazy.

Of course, unlike this video, you don’t need to let him cum, just keep him edged as you enjoy your orgasms. Although, an alternative is to let him cum, well, ruin him. You see the fact you’re lying on him, makes him quite vulnerable, if you were… to keep rubbing him after he’s cum. Post orgasm torture as he buries his face into your pussy… Feeling him buck under you as you use his ruined orgasm’s lube to stroke his super sensitive cock. 

Just an idea…


Head-Play: Excellent Technique!

This is called “head-play” or “polishing the knob.”  It is an entirely different sensation from stroking the shaft, massaging the sweet spot, or massaging his prostate.  Head-play is much more intense, to the point of being uncomfortable if you do it for very long.  It’s probably similar to the way that direct clitoral stimulation can be profoundly uncomfortable (yet intense) sometimes.

Mix this into your usual handjob or blowjob technique, as another way to keep things fun and interesting.  Hold the base of his cock steady and use plenty of lube with a mostly light touch, exactly as shown in the gifs above.

You can also lube your palm and rub your palm, face-down, fingers flat, over the head in a circular motion, like waxing a car.  That’s called “palming,” and is pretty much the most intense type of head-play.  Few mortal men can withstand palming for more than a minute.  See how much your man can handle, before he starts squirming, kicking, and trying to get break free from your grip.

Similar to clitoral stimulation shortly after female orgasm (for many women), extended head-play is so uncomfortable for most men that the sensation becomes indistinguishable from pain – all the reflexive reactions are the same: involuntary sweating, kicking, yelping, trying to escape, crying “stop!”, etc.  And yet, just like post-orgasmic clitoral stimulation, head-play alone can trigger male orgasm, even through the “pain.”  Which is why it’s not the same as actual pain.

To explore head-play induced orgasm, you will need a safe word – because he is definitely going to kick and squirm.  It will look (very convincingly!) like you are hurting him, and you need a way to know if the “pain” is tolerable or not.  It goes without saying… if he uses the safe word, you need to stop immediately, then discuss whether to continue.

I also strongly recommend that you tie him down for this – all four limbs, preferably spread-eagle.  Don’t just tie him up.  Tie him down. (see the difference?) If free to move, he will involuntarily try to shield his crotch by twisting his hips, lifting his knees, or just covering himself with his hands.  This is so disruptive that it becomes nearly impossible for you to craft his orgasm.  The psychological effect of being tied down also helps him “let go” and cum, since struggling is worthless.

And finally, you should know that head-play is the best way to give a man the gift of multiple orgasms.  Head-play is so intense that it short-circuits the “shutdown” reflex that usually follows male orgasm.  Start by tying him down and giving him a normal orgasm using your usual methods (cowgirl, blowjob, handjob, whatever).  Alternatively, you can “ruin” his first orgasm by abandoning his cock a second or so before ejaculation (read elsewhere on this blog for info, tips, and advantages of so-called “ruined” orgasms).  Give him a few seconds to finish cumming and catch his breath.  Massage his body, but not his cock, while you wait.

Now, before his cock starts to wilt, grab it and immediately begin intense head-play.  He – Will – Go – Berserk.  Be ready for violent kicks, thrashing, screams of “pain,” and even crying!  My husband has literally cried when I did this for him. (always have a safe word!)  This is why you tied him down earlier.  Now just stick with the head-play and a little bit of stroking until he cums again.  It should take less than five minutes; sometimes as little as one minute.  Let him cum; let him breathe; then do it all again!  And again!  Tah-dah!  You just treated him to multiple orgasms!  He will thank you when he regains consciousness.

Great to see HSM posting again!
This is an interesting post, I’ve never seen the described effects… which of course means now I’m going to have to go and try, extensively! lol

A sexy denial and post orgasm torture vid that I hadn’t seen before!

You have to click this to play I think (Tumblr’s being weird) but there’s a couple of great things in this vid. Firstly the way she talks to him while using the vibe is really hot, I love the dynamic between them.

But also, it took me a minute to figure out what she was doing to make that snapping sound and it’s because he’s got a condom on in the first bit and she’s pulling it back and letting go of the tip. I’ve never seen that before but that looks like quite a fun little pain thing to try!




..a masturbatrix uses mainly knob and frenulum manipulation to firstly induce an ejaculation and then to administer extended and painful post orgasm massage!!

jesus… the jiggle in her right tit when she starte to work him faster… i nearly lost my edge

So much power over him. So much control.

Oh damn, this makes me wish hubby was allowed to cum, just so I could do this again!