Spin the wheel! So after all those ruined orgasms yesterday (if you got lucky) I thought today would be a good opportunity to explore something a bit meaner! Now I know this is a challenge for many of us, so to help I’ve created a Spinner! You can click this and it’ll spin and randomly…
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Locktober 2018 #9
The Ruined Orgasm Challenge So, in a few days we’re going to try an extended lock up of five days for the first time in Locktober – little or no release for their cock that whole time. (Yes yes, I know some of you are doing that the whole month, including us, but many aren’t!)…
Locktober 2018 #8
Size matters So, we’re a week into this all now so first I suggest you try reviewing the week so far, look back over the posts, what were your favourite, what would you like to do again, talk it through, how you’re getting on with it. Also, if there are any you missed, revisit today…
Locktober 2018 #7
Going down, and staying down So a nice one today, some training for him, on going down on you. He’s going to stay caged, and spend the entire time down between your legs. But this time it’s a game. You see you have to set some secret criteria. An amount of time, and a number…
Locktober 2018 #6
Take a chance, take a chance I hope you’re enjoying everything so far! Thanks so much for those lovely people giving me feedback, you are most appreciated! I know I keep saying it but it’s so helpful hearing back from people, so please do add notes to your reblogs or send me fanmail, it’s great!…
Locktober 2018 #5 – Your secret Tumblr blog
Your secret Tumblr…. The first task today is something that hubby originally suggested, and is actually how I got into Tumblr in the first place at his prompting – a shared, secret Tumblr blog for the two of you! The idea is that you can both be browsing Tumblr and when you find something that…
Locktober 2018 – #4 Hello ruins my old friend
So, today, we’re going to explore the infamous ‘ruined orgasm’. I’m sure some of you reading this are pros at these already, but for those who aren’t the ruined orgasm is a wonderful tool in our denial handbag because while it lets him empty his balls it doesn’t give him any of the pleasure of…
Locktober 2018 – #3 The pleasure is all yours
Today is about you, his cock is going to stay locked up and not get out, at all. If you’re new to caging then this is just a case of putting it on before you start and, maybe taking it off after you’re done, or… maybe it’s time for him to try it overnight? As…
Locktober #2 – A little, interrogation
I’ll tell you what I want, what I really really want… A major challenge for most relationships is communication, so today we’re going to use the a delightful side effect of edging to help us with that. The side effect is that the hornier and closer you get your man to cumming, the easier it…
Locktober 2018 – Here we go!
Locktober 2018 – An introduction My goodness, October does come around fast! Locktober was one of the things that really helped kick this blog off in 2015 and so here we are again. So last year I spent time adding in some advanced options for those who want to try keeping their partner locked up…