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I’m a fan of your blog… I can’t thank you enough for the time you devote to share with the rest of us all your experiences with your intimate playtime etc. A recent question asked how to extend a couple’s play when the wife didn’t quite get it… I’m curious if you have seen this posting on another site that I stumbled upon. Look up gweninlove and the posting for ‘fulfilled-fantasy-male-chastity-device’ This struck me as a well written letter every couple might benefit from. Thanks! Grey
Hi Grey! I’ve just found it and it’s amazing, I’ll repost it here shortly to give it the exposure it merits as the blog it’s on hasn’t been updated since 2013 and it is fabulous. So glad you find what we write here helpful! Always open to advice on what people would like to see…
How do you make the horniness go away? I’m having one of those days and being completely locked I’m unable to do anything about it. I’ve tried eating her out, doing the chores, running her a bath and even giving her a massage. Pretty sure I would do anything for her right now.
Go away? Sweetie, that’s just how we want you. It isn’t going away. This is how it’s supposed to be. There’s nothing you can do about it. This is why we do it, to have you completely focused on us, and what we need. Welcome to your new reality.
Thank you for your wonderful blog, we’ve begun exploring this as a couple and just as you say it’s brought back intimacy and sexyiness to our marriage that neither of us can believe, I just wish we’d heard about it before, but thank you so much. We have got the plastic cage you recommend and updated to one of the metal ones, which we LOVE. I wanted to get him something else as a surprise for Christmas, what do you suggest? And any other Christmas ideas? A very happy wife :)
Hiya, thank you so much for that lovely feedback! It’s just what we love to hear and makes the whole blog worthwhile xxx Okay, so gosh, you didn’t tell me what other toys you have, but they always make great pressies. I’ll assume you have a vibe and other basic toys. But here are some…
Thanks for the great advice! Myself and the wife have taken the plunge and order the small steel cage with the 45mm ring. With the option of buying the spare rings if needed. Hope the wife enjoys even half much as you. Fingers crossed. Thanks. x
That’s wonderful, you’re so welcome! 45mm is the middle size ring I think? Should be good. The fun thing about the solid rings is they act like a cock ring for hubby too so when he does come out and get hard, he’s really hard. Just remember to swivel the ring around to the side…
Hi Jane, I know you like feedback so here is some for you. We have chatted before, I am the one who wasn’t having sex with my wife. My cage arrived today and my wife has already got me in it ! I don’t know how long for and I’m just waiting to see what…
Hello Jane, Just wanted to thank you for the bum licking advice. We tried it after some oral and my wife used her vibrator and I went to work licking her bum. I was locked and plugged and she had a great orgasm and I enjoyed it tremendously. Thanks for all you do, loving the month of October. John
Thanks John, you are so very welcome!!!! Lovely to have that feedback, thank you. Sometimes I still can’t honestly believe we do it but OMG it feels SO GOOD and for whatever reason it works so well with chastity play, doesn’t it!
Soon to be first time male chastity.
Hi Jane, I’m the one who asked you for advice about if male chastity would get our sex life going again.As I said, we no longer have sex but after reading your reply I decided to talk to my wife. To my surprise she has said she is interested and is even going to order…
Thank you so much for sharing your blog and especially your dynamic. My partner also describes herself as adventurous but primarily submissive, and what you describe resonates with our switch dynamic. She is not interested in establishing a FLR, but she was supportive of our exploring chastity play and has slowly begun to embrace its benefits. We are still working at finding the balance. I will share your gmail address with her and I hope she contacts you to correspond. Robert
Thank you Robert! In my opinion the way we do this is really important as in my experience MOST women would tend to be on the submissive side and so all the extreme domme stereotypes found in the captions etc can be unhelpful at least and a huge turnoff for many. Also the men who…