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My wife isn’t as into chastity play as I am. Any idea how to build her interest more and have her enjoy it as much as me?

Get really good at oral sex! http://edging.space/post/157590444398/how-to-give-cunnilingus-like-a-superstar And make sure you are going down on her, A LOT, and tie that into how horny being caged makes you. Also when you’re down there, get her reading stuff like my blog so she sees how fun it can be and associates the amazing feelings you give…

Hi Jane, love the blog, thanx so much! We got into chastity play a couple of yers ago and it’s mostly been great but things haven’t happened the last couple of months and I wondered what you’d advise? I’ve suggested caging him back up but he’s not seemed too botthered? Thanks in advance, Sam.

Hi Sam – you’re very welcome and don’t worry we all go through ups and downs. It was a few years ‘down’ after we had kids that led us to even exploring stuff like this. So chastity is a bit like magic, even if they aren’t feeling in the mood, just doing it makes them start…

Hi, I have been married many years but no longer have sex. I have seen your website and wonder if this would be a way of getting things going again. I don’t think my wife would be into this or understand it. But, strangely, I think I would be into her being in control of me with a chastity. What is the best way to approach my wife about this without her being shocked or even laughing?

Oh gosh, I’m sorry to hear that. I certainly can imagine when we’ve been married a long time that chastity play will be a mainstay in us keeping our sex life fresh and exciting – even more than now.  But if your wife isn’t into sex at all I’m not sure what to advise. You…

Couple interested in chastity. In abstinence until honeymoon. What can we do until the honeymoon to test the water on each other? Both want to try it, but don’t know how to set “rules/rewards”. Please let us know your thoughts. Thanks.

Oh I love this! I WISH we’d known about all this in the run up to us getting married, it would have been so great! We also practised abstinence until honeymoon, which was great, but very hard. But looking back it was great in terms of we took our time to explore lots of aspects…