Tag: caged cock

curiouscris1919:

For anyone who thinks you can’t fit an above-average cock into a very, very, VERY small cage.

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Wow, that’s amazing. We have a tiny one like that, it’s painfully small for him apparently. This really makes me want to put him in it lol

‘Don’t ask me, tell me, it’s much hotter’

That’s what hubby said to me at the weekend. As you’ll know if you’ve read the blog, he’s actually pretty dominant, (although obviously wonderfully switchy given we do all this!) but he was very clear with me that when he’s caged, particularly when I want oral sex without letting him out, he wants me to tell him to do it, not be polite and ask.

Things you might say:

  • ‘Honey I’m horny, come and lick my clit for a while
  • I’m in the mood for some oral sex, no baby, just on me
  • Make me cum with your mouth, right now
  • Are you horny and frustrated honey? Good, me too, but I’m not in a cage, so come and suck on my clit if you ever want to be let out
  • You get the idea…

The other twist for us is that when he’s down there, he teases the living fuck out of me. One reason is because it reminds me when he’s out of the cage he loves to deny me (it really is a shared kink!) but also he’s told me he loves it when i get so desperate I grab his hair and push him against me. Mmmm, I love it when he does that to me too so it’s not hard to empathise!

The two positions that we use most are simply me lying on the bed and him on it too, but also like this picture, with me on the edge of the bed and him kneeling on the floor. 

My latest game is to make him do this and then put on some porn, but he can’t watch because he’s between my legs. OMG so sexy. I never really used to like porn at all but he used to watch lots, so this is a HUGE tease for him. But more than that, I’ve actually found some I like that gives me some great ideas of how to ‘act’ sexy and as long as we watch it together I feel okay with it. Actually when I say, I found it, he did… I told him to find me some he thought I’d like, with his cage on of course – that got some fun messages about how mean I was :D.  FYI the majority of the stuff I liked was by a company called X-art, as the name suggests, it’s absolutely beautiful and very classy.

Palming

Rubbing the palm of your hand in tiny circles on the tip of a penis produces frantic results. EXPLAINED “Palming” or “Knob Polishing” is the act of rubbing the head of the penis in circular motions using the lubricated palm of your hand.  Experiment with slow, fast, firm, light, tiny circles, wide circles, a supple…

Strap-ons – such fun, so kinky!

We tried this recently and it was pretty amazing. Possibly one of the kinkiest things we’ve ever done, and he was so frustrated but turned on by it, but I did let him out afterwards and gave him an amazing orgasm so everyone was happy.

But yes… keeping him with his cage on, then making him wear a strap on, that’s bigger than his cock, and having him fuck me. So hot. We did it in missionary and then I sat on top, both were great. His cock was straining at his cage the whole time.

I was a bit nervous about it but he loved seeing how I reacted to a bigger toy in me. And honestly, it felt amazing, needed to warm up a bit but omg, it felt great. And I shouldn’t feel guilty about that. It IS just a toy! He just happens to be wearing it not holding it!. Hubby is the size he is and I love him and love his cock, but wow, this felt so good.

Try it!

(and yeah, I haven’t pegged him yet, still thinking about it…)

laotk:

Non-orgasmic activities #2

Ok, you have him naked and on his back. Remove his cage. Once uncaged, masturbate him. Watch him carefully. If you want, tell him to let you know when he is close. You can tell him that if he has an “accident” he will stay locked with no teasing for a month. Get him to help you, but don’t necessarily believe him in the beginning.

Tease him any way you want. The objective is to get him close to orgasm without letting him get release. Getting him very aroused is just as good as bringing him right to the edge. While he may think it is for his fun, your real objective is to keep those hormones flowing and reminding his body of what it is missing. You can do this over and over as many times as you want. If you keep it up long enough, he will actually lose the ability to come for a while. Just remember, no orgasms until his release date!

When you are done, lock him up again and have him lick or finger you to as many orgasms as you like. 

This basically nails it (although I’d say something like a month but not mean it, just to fuck with him).

faontk:

A ruined orgasm is another way of asserting control over the male

The most pleasurable element of male orgasm isn’t the orgasm itself, but the heightened sensitivity of the penis, particularly the glans, during orgasm.

 If all sensation is denied the moment the orgasm starts, the pleasure is reduced by a good 80%. A ruined orgasm also often leaves the male feeling slightly unsatisfied and eager for more reward, which is a better option for keeping him in the proper mindset.

She’s doing it wrong

From my testing (I’ve really got into giving these…) Apparently it feels much, much less pleasurable when you either stop contact completey, or hold his cock much further down. Her squeezing it like that would feel pretty damn good.

The reason to hold it, is if he’s spurting, it’s quite fun to direct it! lol

The perfect ruined one, and I’m still not quite sure how it happens, is when you get the cum to just flow out but not spurt, it’s so hot! It’s just about finding the exact tipping point and stopping, I think.

There’s about a ten second delay before the cum can come out sometimes, so don’t be too fast to go back!

Hubby stays really horny after this, but it takes about five minutes for him to get back to it. So…. my really nasty twist is to make him cum into a glass, get him horny again, and then make him drink it (for another orgasm if he can perhaps or to avoid being caged again…). The hottest one is me pouring it into my mouth and then kissing him – we do that anyway sometimes after a blowjob. From a glass is more clinical and mean, when I feel like a bitch… he expects me to swallow… this is payback.

laotk:

Enforced chastity 

The main point of enforced chastity is to transfer control of the caged male’s sexual pleasure from him to his keyholder. It is a power exchange. As keyholder you need to maintain his sexual desire throughout his waiting time. He has to be desperate for release in order for him to truly feel sexually controlled. To keep him that way, you will need to stimulate him on a regular basis without providing him the opportunity to orgasm or ejaculate.

An ultimate expression of your power is to replace his scheduled orgasm with a ruined one. This is very frustrating to the male and will imprint strongly that you, in fact, own his pleasure. Since ruined orgasms do reset his physical need for orgasm, if not his mental one, they should not be intentionally given before his scheduled release date.

Sex for you is independent of his pleasure. You should use him to give you orgasms whenever you desire them. If you want intercourse without him ejaculating, you will have to train him to hold back. This can be done through punishment for accidents and with training aids: multiple condoms and/or numbing cream.

Your male has asked you to control his ability to get sexual pleasure. It’s up to you to assert that control and have fun in the process!

So this is the essence of what we do. But I think the big difference with what most chastity blogs on here say is that we don’t do it for crazy long amounts of time! It can be as little as a few hours, or a day or two most often. We’ve done it for a week as the longest time we ever did it. And then we rarely put it back on again after that denial has finished, we do other stuff.

However, the cage does come off MOST DAYS, as for me the intensity of it isn’t about how long I’ve kept him denied but edging him every day (or even a few times a day) and then putting the cage back on.

With the week long denial I’d unlock him first thing, quickly wank him for about three minutes, and then send him to the shower, he was allowed to wash, yes touch, but not wank, and then I’d put the cage back on him. Then pretty much most nights (five out of seven maybe?) we played for about an hour which was a mix of him pleasing me and then finally taking the cage off while he was restrained, edging him a few times, leaving him like that as I read a book and putting the cage back on when he’d gone back down.

Yeah, it was insanely sexy, for us both.

I’ll talk about ruined orgasms in another post. 😀