Of course he does! It’s just a fantasy. I felt bad about stuff like that for a long time but finally, probably with Tumblr’s help actually, realised it didn’t mean we had to do things in real life. What really helped was us both treating it as a hot game. I’d lying there edging him,…
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Did you ever tell your girlfriend that you lock you husbands cock in a cage? If yes, what was her thoughts/reaction? His thoughts/reaction?
I did actually! I thought I wrote about it but I can’t find it. She really didn’t know what to think. It was quite funny. She thought I was making it up as a joke to begin with. When i showed her the key I had with me she still didn’t believe it. It got…
Hi. Such a cool blog. Can I ask what you do to entertain yourself if your man is locked up?
Well there’s the licking, the rubbing, the vibing, the browsing tumblr, the watching porn, the strap on fucking, did I mention the licking, the tying up, the roleplays, the dildoing, the face-sitting, the fantasising, oh yes and the licking. Seems like enough to keep me entertained, don’t you think 😛 Jane xxx
When you do let him out of his cage do you restrain him at all? Have you done any bill stretching or tied them off in any way?
Sometimes, yes, we have under bed restraints so it’s really easy. Other times I make him lie with his hands under his bottom and if they come out, what we’re doing stops. That’s almost hotter. Other times no, he’s just free. And no, no ball stretching and only tied off with a cock ring that…
Hi I’m just wondering why I never see or hear about piercing just above the base of the penis? There are less nerves there and it’s easy to keep clean. Once healed the top of a cage could be locked to the ring there. Just wondering if you guys ever heard of anyone doing this? Love your tumblr. Z
I haven’t, interesting idea though. Part of the point of a Prince Albert piercing (yes, he is supposed to have had one!!! No wonder Victoria missed him…) is that it also stimulates him all the time, so not only is he caged absolutely securely but it’s like the tip of my tongue is constantly lapping…
Hi, love your blog! Dont know if you addressed this before, but I have a couple questions. First, how did you two started chastity play, was he the one who brought up and it grew on you, or it was you who wanted to try and it grew on him? How fast did you escalate? Second, how much of your time you guys spend on Ds/TD play versus vanilla sex? Do you have any procedure to switch between the two? Thanks again!
Hi, thank you! Been busy recently so haven’t had much time to devote to it but hoping to do some more soon. So yes, he brought it up but for us it was very mutual. We’d been shopping for some toys from Lovehoney and he showed me the cock cage page and said, ‘I kind of…
Hi Jane! Loving locktober so far but hubby plays team sports and the cage could be an issue. I kinda like the idea of his buddies seeing him in a cage but I don’t want to embarrass him too much..! Would like to keep him caged though. Suggestions?
Well, I think realistically you’re going to have to let him out for sports. However, that doesn’t mean he has to know that… It’d be quite fun to pretend you’re not going to, and then lie back earlier that day and get him to ‘convince you’, while you talk about how his friends would react, how…
Have you got any other periods in the year like “Locktober” the prospect of another time of denial and frustration is very exciting.
Couldn’t you just, you know, reuse the Locktober ideas, any month? Honestly they’re really just a 31 day guided tour around lots of the experiences you can enjoy when exploring denial. It’s cute to have it tied to a pun but all it’d need is for you to say, ‘Hey honey, this Locktober thing looks fun,…

Thanks for your previous reply. This may be a little personal so if so ignore it but i was wondering can a female actually cum from pegging their partner. Thanks again for the reply and the great blog.
Definitely, but I it’s pretty hard if you’re just doing it from the fucking. Firstly it’s damn hard work (who knew how hard it was to thrust lots?! I had no idea. First few times I couldn’t do it for long at all as my muscles were killing me!). Secondly there’s not a lot of…
Hello again! I need advice again. I said before that my bf is better with his tongue and the dildo than he ever was with his cock. After I read about your experience with the King Cock Girthy, I got one for myself…OH MY GOSH I actually cum from intercourse now! The problem is that I’ve found myself thinking more and more about what a real one would feel like, and I’m addicted to this new sense of power…So now I’m dangerously close to cuckolding him! How do you keep the temptation away?!
I’m so glad you are enjoying the different that amazing toy makes! It’s incredible isn’t it, and even with it just as a strap on, it’s still very intimate I find, especially in missionary or spooning. But just like getting oral, he’s focused on giving me pleasure, which also really arouses him! In regards to the…