In reality much less than I threaten to, because that’s the fun bit. I love telling him I’m going to make him do it, I’d do that once or twice a week maybe. Actually once he’s cum and he doesn’t want to, I don’t tend to either. But I feel like I should sometimes just…
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Hi! I read your Locktober posts, some great ideas there! Now personally I found the surprise ending suuuper hot. But thinking on the practicality of it, it was a somewhat of a “breach of contract” to put those three choices… I mean I don’t know what sort of rules you both agreed beforehand, but at least for me if my wife tried to unilaterally extend 1 month to almost 3, that would have awarded a serious talk afterward! Haha Did you talk at all about it afterwards? Love the blog!!
You mean this final locktober post I assume. Firstly, it wasn’t unilaterally, he had the choice lol Secondly, more importantly, there is no ‘contract’ – the deal is I make the rules, and I can change them and mess with them and even lie as long as I think it’s going to turn him on even more.…
Hi, I am a locked up hubby. We still have a great sex life, my wife actually loves riding my cock as much as locking it up. I am allowed to cum at the same time she comes. Not before or after. I really enjoy it. Everything. Then sometimes I think it might be better she’d lock me up longer, it’s kind of paradox. My question would be: Do you think I should approach this, as in asking her to lock me up longer and be stricter on the cumming? Or would that spoil her fun?
Well, there’s no harm in asking! You don’t have to stop the sex though, just you don’t get to cum. Personally I love leaving hubby in his cage while we have sex so if she’s interested then you should get yourselves a strap on and maybe even a big dildo to go with it so…
Early on in your blog you mentioned that you were naturally submissive and the cage ‘leveled the playing field’. Recently though I saw you only let him have a full penetrative orgasm about once a month now? Have things changed?
I don’t think I’ve changed that much, a submissive attitude is still my default position and we’ve really always been quite switchy. It still varies quite a lot, we have weeks where we are too busy or one of us is ill etc and we won’t do much tease or denial at all. This is…