The denial porn tease
Another of the big surprises about chastity is the way it’s changed how I feel about some porn. Looking back I can say I really didn’t like porn, and that was mostly out of insecurity I guess – all these perfect, actresses that I thought my husband wanted to look at, and so be with, instead of me.
While I still don’t like MOST porn (because it’s mostly just awful, and what’s with the gynaecological detail?!, so not sexy) the intimacy that’s come from having hubby caged and/or denied has made me feel so desired and got him so focused on me that it’s helped me be a bit more open about it enjoying it. Oh plus the factor him caged means it’s painful if he wants to watch it lol
My primary viewing of it is on Tumblr (it takes a few weeks to get past the ‘OMFG!’ reaction to some of the posts while your brain learns to filter better!) as we share stuff that turns us on and that we think the other would like on our secret shared tumblr blog. And we enjoy scrolling through those together as we cuddle and play (and laugh!).
But also, I guess about once a week, I’ve started to use it to tease him as part of orgasm denial.
The video above is a perfect example of what I’d use with him, so I thought I’d share it and give some examples of how I’d use it.
We’d put it on on a laptop or tablet (depends how hands free I need to be! lol) and I’d start it before I unlocked him, cuddling up to him, playing with his caged cock, kissing and rubbing his nipples. I love seeing his cock straining at the cage. And I’ll talk about the girls in it, what I like about them, what’s a hot idea from their technique, for example.
At this point I’ll get my vibe and get myself really horny while occasionally playing with him. And usually, if it’s porn that’ll turn HIM on, I’ll finally let him out (although I may leave the base ring on to keep him extra hard).
Then I like to get him close but then just hold onto his cock as I cum, mixing that with snuggling and teasing.
So if it’s like the video above I’ll focus on two things, the fact all those guys get to cum, while hubby is denied:
- Oh god darling, can you imagine how good that would feel?
- Look how hard he’s cumming, do you remember how that feels?
- Would you like to use me like that?
- Would you like me to suck and lick your cock like that darling? Sorry, you haven’t earned that, but you can lick me (and send him down).
The other one that I used with this video is the fact there are so many big cocks in it (I’m, surprisingly, into that..) so I used lines like:
- Oh darling, look how big his cock is, if you were that big I’d make you cum so much
- I love looking at big cocks now, see what you’ve done to me?
- I wonder what it feels like to have a cock that big in you
- A big cock like that wouldn’t even fit in a cage
- Whisper in his ear, ‘I’m not kidding, I wish you were bigger now’
- ‘When I masturbate I think about big cocks sometimes’
- Put on the strap on, I need something big inside me
A few twists
Uncage him but leave the ring on before you start the video. Then tell him off for getting hard looking at other girls (try to avoid touching his cock, but whisper in his ear, go to town on his nipples and vibe yourself, all of which should get him up.
Of course, if he DOESN’T get hard you just say ‘oh honey, you don’t seem to want it today!’ and just lock him back up!
My absolutely favourite tease and ruin handjob video atm – you could just watch this and copy it to become a master (mistress…?) of tease!
Here’s a compilation of edging and ruin of the same style as the video at the top, hot to put on in the background! (Just be aware only some have sound so don’t get caught out). They’re both really hot imo!
Getting really kinky with it…
Probably the kinkiest thing we do with porn is indulging my ‘big cock’ fascination. For whatever reason we both find teasing hubby about cock size a turn on, so a few times I’ve had him find me a ‘big cock’ compilation that we watch together as I hold him and… basically compare how big they are.
This ends up one of two ways. Either I get him to go down on me while he knows I’m still watching it, using lines such as, ‘Oh darling it’s a good thing I’ve discovered you’re so good with your tongue, it makes up a bit for your little cock’ – cumming from him licking me while I do that is ridiculously hot.
The other option is we now have a really big strap on cock (we’ve given it a name recently, ‘Adonis’ so I can say, ‘I want Adonis in me’ lol) and either while still caged or free, he fucks my brains out with that.
It’s hard to describe how hot this is. Firstly I now cum, repeatedly, just from being fucked. And this turns him on SO much, and then, the fact he can’t cum so he remains unbelievably horny… it makes him fuck me all the harder (great exercise too, it’s seriously getting him fit!)
Some videos you might want to try if you’re into this:
http://spankbang.com/9yzy/video/big+cock+compilation (loud start! but lots of girls telling the guy how big he is which for some reason I find really hot)
http://xhamster.com/movies/1278644/for_all_the_ladies…_big_cock_compilation.html (mostly blowjobs and cum shots, has dance music over the top rather than sex noises)
http://xhamster.com/movies/5324167/big_cock_handjob_compilation.html (hand jobs, no music, sound on some)
http://xhamster.com/movies/2209727/sluts_getting_the_big_cocks_compilation.html (moody jazz on this one of blowjobs and sex! lol with a bit of sex noise too (but one random bondage forced female orgasm in the middle with no cock, odd)
http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1112949411 (queen of the deepthroat (hubby tells me) this married couple are quite something!)
Anyway, I hope some of that will be fun for you!