msjohnnylove
answered your question “Women readers, fancy a chat?”

I like reading your ideas, thanks. I love playing with my husband. My question is, how do you keep playing for long time, even when life/kids/work get in the way. I need inspiration and take the time to read or watch things to get idea.

Well we have kids too, and it was really hard for a long time, in fact the whole caging thing was part of us getting our sex life back on track and trying new things out to see what helped. Sometimes it’s easier than others. Hubby sometimes works from home so that makes things easier when he is. But mostly it’s about just carving out the time, we have date nights. 

Hopefully the whole Locktober thing will give you some ideas too! You don’t have to do it all but there should be lots of ideas to try, even on just a date night.