Love the porn usage description. Fascinating for me to see a woman blogging so enthusiastically about this activity. I am currently locked up with my wife holding the key. We do this occasionally but I always initiate it. It saddens me. I think she enjoys doing this on her own terms but is too inhibited to play aggressively. I daydream about getting her involved in an online forum with other women and perhaps, gently encouraging her to become more engaged. Thanks for your posts.

Thank you! Yeah, I think you can tell by the introduction, I’m surprised too! Just bear in mind we see it very differently from you. We want porn that has a connection between people, it’s the intimacy along with the sexiness that is the turn on. Just fucking is rarely hot and often a turn off unless you’ve got a kink that way (like the thing I’ve got into with big cocks).

For me I usually either imagine it’s US doing it, or that I’m secretly watching them with hubby.

STILL PHOTOS are sexier than films most of the time, as they are much more beautiful. So again, as I’ve just been posting about, try setting up a secret blog and just posting some very simple sexy images in a mix with cute and romantic ones, and see what she thinks.

Hubby does that and what now happens is that we’ll look at what he posted for me in bed together, and then if i’m in the mood I might go exploring tumblr for more while we snuggle.

If you dare let her read this blog you’re more than welcome to suggest she message me, I don’t bite and LOVE talking to other women starting out with this (rememeber we’ve only been into it a year! I’m just a fast learner lol).