Limit His Sensitivity When You Tease Him
The objective is to get him close to orgasm without letting him get release. Getting him very aroused is just as good as bringing him right to the edge. While he may think it is for his fun, your real objective is to keep those hormones flowing and reminding his body of what it is missing. You can do this over and over as many times as you want. Just remember, no orgasms until his release date!
Condoms. A couple of condoms will reduce his sensitivity and make it easier for him to control himself.
Desensitizing cream. These creams like Oragel contain Novocaine or other anesthetics that actually numb the penis and eliminate any pleasurable sensation from intercourse.
Bed Sheet/blanket. Put some fabric over his erect penis and tease him with your mouth or fingers.
There is nothing wrong with training aids to help him learn to use his penis for your pleasure, not his.
We’ve still never tried numbing cream – must give it a go sometime.