Hi Jane, I just woke with an errection in my cage and it really hurt. I have a regular size cage, is it meant to hurt that much? The pain didn’t go away so I had to remove it. Would a metal one be better for my wife as it would still hold me in chastity but allow some movement if I wake up aroused.
From our experience, and what I have read there are two solutions.
Firstly your body just takes time to adjust. Making sure the cage ring is lubed minimises how much that hurts apparently.
But secondly it may be the cage is too BIG. Apparently this is much less of a problem if you have NO room to grow in the cage, as the erection never gets to build up any momentum, so to speak.