Hi, my wife and I have tried chastity a few times but are yet to fall in love with it. Her concerns are the absence of sexual spontaneity and degradation of me as a sex symbol. My concerns are the CB6000s is not great for long-term wear, and I don’t receive enough tease and denial to keep it really interesting. I am still keen on the idea, and think the benefits are real.. but investing in a the custom metal cage I want is currently not a practical option. Any advice?