Month: March 2018

Hmm, well ‘massaging’ might be a bit of an under statement. A finger or two hitting the right spot, or a dildo sliding in and out is usually required…

Gloryhole fantasies…

  1. Discuss which you’d take, which you’d share, and which you’d want to watch him do…
  2. What would he have to do to get uncaged himself?
  3. How could he earn an orgasm?

Well that does seem fair.

As far as fantasies go, this is actually kind of hot. I know we both get turned on by the fantasy of me at a gloryhole, anonymously discovering what a bigger cock looks, and feels like. 

But if hubby was there with me… would I want him just watching, straining in his cage? Maybe, that’s hot. 

But maybe if it’s even hotter if I beckoned him over like this. Convinced him to join me. Kissed him, then it, then him again.

Sucked on it slowly, watching him watch me, the pulled back and said, ‘Your turn…’

I wonder how good he’d be at it. After all he’s watched me do it all these years…

Maybe I’d encourage him…’If you can take it all in I’ll unlock your cock’

Reaching down, stroking him, sharing it with him, getting him closer as the inevitable draws near. Finally after all those years of it going in my mouth, he gets to find out how it feels.

I don’t let him cum though, not even as he discovers what it tastes like. Even as I keep him on edge and whisper, ‘Good boys swallow’.

No, I mustn’t let him cum, not yet. I’m having far too much fun, and another cock’s just popped through the wall…

Sure, threaten to do it, that’s hot. But you need to make him do it too, at least sometimes, more often than not I’d say, for it to stay powerful and hot.

I used to threaten it lots and then never follow through, and then he directly told me I needed to. That while in the moment, when he’s just cum, he’s no longer turned on by it, that isn’t the issue, it’s SO hot when he is horny to think about it and also how hot is the idea that I get off on making him do it.

So now I’ve gone from not following through most of the time, to making him do it, and he’s right, it is hot! He wants ME to swallow, it’s only fair! 😛

So whether it’s straight into his mouth like above, or into a glass and tipping it into his mouth, or just into my cupped hand, or into my mouth and then kissing him. We do it a lot. And in fact MOST ruined orgasms go in his mouth now, that’s hot too. It’s like a full orgasm is allowed to shoot out and stay out, but a ruin… that goes back in him. Hot!

Fingerbanging your man

As you probably know, guys have a prostate gland a finger’s length in their bottoms, that feels amazing when rubbed properly. If you’re serious about pleasuring and teasing him you need to try exploring this. it can even lead to those perfect flowing ruined orgasms that are so hot.

But a big problem for me was just terminology, it’s hard to talk about, until we started (I can’t remember who) calling it fingerbanging!

For some reason, I love calling it that, and it makes it fun to talk about, ‘I’m going to fingerbang you later’ is cute, I think anyway!

And remember, make sure to send him off to really shower well, but just stick a condom on your finger if you’re worried about it, or, use a toy! Glass dildos, normal dildos, vibrators, most of them can be used for this, with a condom on to keep them clean. Just beware things without a base as you don’t want to lose them! lol

Use loads of lube, and try it out. You’ll be surprised how hot fingerbanging your man can be!