Well there are a few options, yes you could edge him less and just not get him as close until he learns more self control and you learn to read his ‘signs’ better that he’s about to cum. But the major thing is that you ruin the orgasm. As soon as he starts to cum you…
Month: October 2015
Locktober Day 3
The pleasure is all yours So today you tell him he’s only going to get out of the cage if he’s pleased you throughout the day to your satisfaction. This will obviously vary according to your various work patterns etc, (I’ve picked a day hubby is working from home) but here’s the general plan. He’s…
msjohnnylove answered your question “Women readers, fancy a chat?” I like reading your ideas, thanks. I love playing with my husband. My question is, how do you keep playing for long time, even when life/kids/work get in the way. I need inspiration and take the time to read or watch things to get idea. Well…
Locktober Day 2
I’ll tell you what I want, what I really really want… I hope all went well with Day 1. Feedback is incredibly welcome, either in notes or a message! I like making this interactive. Hubby is looking adorable shaved, although I don’t want stubble burns so perhaps he’ll just have to stay that way now!…
Locktober Day 1 – the fun begins
Welcome to the first ‘Locktober’ post, a series of ideas for you to try with your man who you’re keeping in chastity. Thanks to those who have made contact, it’s most appreciated. A big encouragement if you’re even going to dabble with this, I’d love to hear from you and chat with other women doing this…
Announcing LOCKtober – who wants to join us?
So hubby and I have decided to go for another longer stint and have come up with the idea of LOCKtober. Starting tonight he’s going to be locked in a cage for the rest of the month, and that’s maybe just the start… He will not be cumming at leawt until 31st October. There may…
My wife discovered ‘penis plugs’ the other day and I wondered if you had any experience with them or thoughts to share?
I’m afraid we don’t, although I’d been wondering the same thing as the cock cages page on Lovehoney also has all their penis plugs on, so I guess there’s some link between them, and I’ve seen lots of cages with them built in. I assume it feels good? I can’t imagine there would be so many…
Adoration
marfisa-thor: And I love to lust after you. Hah, loved the contrast between these too. I hadn’t ever considered a spiked cage as anything I’d use but the idea of putting him in one and then making him watch porn as a behaviour modification is kinda sexy!
Male Chastity The Truth Behind The Belt
It is advertised that one of the best ways to control a man and his deviant sexual behavior is to place him in a chastity belt? Can this really be true…….
The idea of a man allowing a woman to place his penis in chastity seems unimaginable to most people, why would any man allow a woman to control his orgasm?
The idea that a woman is going to put her man in chastity because he cheats on her is not the reality of the belt! One has been lead to believe this is so, but the truth is that it is often times the man that wants to have his penis locked in the tight device and be controlled by the woman.
In fact most men that go into chastity are looking at it from an erotic stand point rather than keeping him from cheating. For a woman the enjoyment can come from the fact that yes, she is controlling his orgasm to a certain extent, she has power over him, he is hers…..
Male chastity is one topic that is not often talked about or exposed. The reason why, is that there is such a psychological component to it that many people don’t understand. Sexuality is not just a physical release or a simple role in the hay, people who like to have their minds stimulated along with their body crave advanced sexual play.
Placing a man in chastity can give the woman control over his orgasm, but not only that it can be a way for the man to use his denial of touching himself to energize him throughout the day. He knows that he cannot touch his penis even if he wants to. He is left with pure sexual energy that he has to channel into his work, or other activities throughout the day or even the week. Some men have stayed in chastity for months, at a time waiting for their partner to let them free.
Denial of orgasm for a period of time is more psychological than physical. The device locked around their penis gives them the ability to concentrate better at work and become more successful at what they do.
Another fallacy is that a man is not having an orgasm or can’t have an orgasm while in chastity. The release can be mental stimulation as well as his penis swelling in the device causing him to have a slow drip orgasm, which for some men is more erotic than a full release. (Sorry men had to let that little secret out of the bag!)
Again, I really don’t know why it needs a video of her sucking on his cage to headline it, but I there’s some interesting thoughts in here!
Loved your ‘mean’ story – did you peg him?! If so, any tips? I wanted to try it with my OH but am a bit nervous about it. We bought the strap on a couple of yeras ago but its never been used
Thank you! Yes it’s been a lot of fun, he’s loving it too. And yes, I totally pegged him the next day! I’ve been looking at a really good blog that’s all about it: http://onthekneesnow.tumblr.com/ It’s got some stuff that’s not for us, as with most, and lots of the pictures are quite graphic, but…