Thanks, I love questions like this. I just looked at x-art too and you’re right, the stuff on their website doesn’t look nearly as nice as the older stuff hubby found for me. Youporn.com has a ‘female friendly’ category but just checked that and didn’t think it was great either.
Why not start with tumblr, something we’ve done is look at a few other blogs that have beautiful erotic images and just talk through which ones we like most, taking turns, and inspiring things to try too.
This is most fun when I’m playing with him. Look, honestly, he loves looking at the pictures when I’m playing with him. It was something he did in secret for years, and I’d far rather he occasionally did it with me then by himself! And when he’s caged he can’t because it’s too painful, HAH!
I hate lots of porn videos, but if I go to an art gallery I have NO issue looking and paintings of naked women, and really I see a lot of the stuff in the blogs I’ll recommend below as that, sexy, erotic art that we enjoy together! Sadly I’m not 20 any more and my body isn’t perfect. I thought I’d have an issue with looking at stuff like that but however we started (I can’t remember now) I’ve found as long as we’re enjoying it TOGETHER and looking at beautiful erotica, not some degrading pornography, then I like it, sometimes, in small doses. We don’t do it often, I keep it as a treat for him, and actually I’ve grown to like it too.
Anyway, the most beautiful sexy blog, with a bit of a denial theme too, is this:
http://lustylonging.tumblr.com/
and then this one is a mix of sexy poetry and images
http://michaelfaudet.tumblr.com/
(I totally want his book, hubby HINT!!!)
For female denial this is my favourite:
http://female-orgasm-denial.tumblr.com/page/4
His captions are AMAZING!