Tag: ruined orgasms

Quite the set of images! Of course, no real need to keep stroking once you take him over the edge. Better to just let him focus on pumping all that cum out without the distraction of it feeling too nice. You’re going to have to do it again, and again, to really drain him dry anyway.

I think this set is so sexy, I love to edge hubby like this, him on a chair or the end of the bed, and just totally focused on using both hands with our favourite silicon lube.

Of course he’s not allowed to cum… if he does I just slide my hand down to the base of his cock and either let him just jet his cum out as the orgasm is ruined, or more recently I’ll bend forward and gently put my mouth just around the very tip, and let him ruin into my mouth. Then I crawl up next to him and put my mouth on his and make him drink all his unauthorised sperm and take it back into his system…

Either way, it’s straight back into the cage.

Loving the locktober ideas! Trying to do as much as poss with my bf although we don’t live togehther. We are new to this and when i edge him he often cums. Should i edge him less and just leave him caged or what? Txs xxx

Well there are a few options, yes you could edge him less and just not get him as close until he learns more self control and you learn to read his ‘signs’ better that he’s about to cum.  But the major thing is that you ruin the orgasm. As soon as he starts to cum you…

My boyfriend seems to have a lovehate thing with the idea of me making him swallow his cum, but I LOVE the idea. Got any tips on how to get him to do it?

Hiya, yeah hubby’s the same, he talks about it sometimes when I’m edging him and I feel how hard his cock gets but it really doesn’t turn him on when he’s not very horny (although I don’t think the idea repels him like it seems to some guys). Anyway, this is what I did, because…

faontk:

A ruined orgasm is another way of asserting control over the male

The most pleasurable element of male orgasm isn’t the orgasm itself, but the heightened sensitivity of the penis, particularly the glans, during orgasm.

 If all sensation is denied the moment the orgasm starts, the pleasure is reduced by a good 80%. A ruined orgasm also often leaves the male feeling slightly unsatisfied and eager for more reward, which is a better option for keeping him in the proper mindset.

She’s doing it wrong

From my testing (I’ve really got into giving these…) Apparently it feels much, much less pleasurable when you either stop contact completey, or hold his cock much further down. Her squeezing it like that would feel pretty damn good.

The reason to hold it, is if he’s spurting, it’s quite fun to direct it! lol

The perfect ruined one, and I’m still not quite sure how it happens, is when you get the cum to just flow out but not spurt, it’s so hot! It’s just about finding the exact tipping point and stopping, I think.

There’s about a ten second delay before the cum can come out sometimes, so don’t be too fast to go back!

Hubby stays really horny after this, but it takes about five minutes for him to get back to it. So…. my really nasty twist is to make him cum into a glass, get him horny again, and then make him drink it (for another orgasm if he can perhaps or to avoid being caged again…). The hottest one is me pouring it into my mouth and then kissing him – we do that anyway sometimes after a blowjob. From a glass is more clinical and mean, when I feel like a bitch… he expects me to swallow… this is payback.