Tag: ruined orgasms

I know baby, it’d feel so good if you stayed inside but then you won’t be horny any more, and I’ll be all messy. This is better for everyone.

Oh another version of what I just posted about, how hot is that! Feeling him pounding away from behind me, knowing he can’t cum without permission.
‘Please can I cum?’ he begs over and over, his fucking slowing so he doesn’t go over.
‘Not yet’ I tell him, again, and again, until he just can’t hold himself any longer.
‘Ruin it’ is all I have to say and with a few more thrusts he pulls out and I feel his seed splatter over my back his cock pushed against my asshole.
Or sometimes I’ll be more specific, ‘Ruin it in my ass’ I’ll say and he’ll pull out and push the head of his cock against there, I tighten up so he can’t get in, but I feel the force of his cum squirt inside. I love that feeling, plus…saves on the mess lol

Careful not to squeeze too hard when you ruin him as even that can feel really good! Relax your grip so you just barely touch and direct him where you want it to spurt.

Clearly You have many options to entertain yourself. Does he ever get pouty or jealous about his situation? And if so, do you ever resort to punishing him for it?

Not often. The main thing that will frustrate him is not getting enough attention when he’s caged.But I like to edge him most days so that’s rarely an issue.  A quick one in the morning is brilliant. He’ll get up, make me a coffee, then get unlocked, go shower and then either I’ll get him…

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This is a perfect ruined orgasm. No spurts. No twitching. No motion at all. Just pouring out all that pent up pressure. Spilling over without a hint of orgasmic pleasure.

It keeps me “wanting” she says. “It’s good for you.” she tells me.

She’s proud she keeps me so grateful for her touch, always responsive, and squirmy in horny frustration. She gazes down at me with such pride. She glows.

And so I stay her “nice boy” and never move to take back control, or take my pleasure into my own hands. I am kept

Tips & tricks on how to achieve this please?

Patience. Slow hands. Don’t clench. Don’t force yourself to spill. Don’t twitch your cock. Slowly approach the climax. Tell her when you’re ready to cum. Stop beforehand. I don’t need to be stroked anymore. Just a few fingertips teasing my frenum – my magic spot – is enough.

Don’t focus on the orgasm. Cherish the edge and fear being let down from that high. Just let it happen. Actually, she doesn’t try to get me to spill. She just tries to keep me on the edge.

Relax. Avoid “expectations”. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn’t, be happy with the attention.

You’ll know it’s “perfect” when you’re still rock hard after. You won’t have felt a tingle. Perhaps some relief from being poured out.

For me though, we’re so far down the rabbit hole that, I will sometimes get so emotionally and mentally wound up that I will expend my energy and get sleepy afterwards. It’s all the endorphins and a crash without a climax.

My wife tells me she doesn’t really want to make me spill. The edging is all the fun and none of the mess. Spilling is ok, but it’s not her goal.

And thus my body will sometimes just pour out. It’s good. It keeps me healthy. It’s not shameful. She smiles at how much I’ll generate for her. It’s something to be proud of.

But if you slip into an orgasm that’s fine. Just don’t focus on orgasms. Focus on the edge and let your body decide to well up and spill out what’s been generated from all the teasing.

I’ve ruined myself in my past. 2014 was the last time I was allowed it masturbate freely and play around, in prep and in the aftermath of getting my PA piercing for chastity.

I’ve accidentally poured out when changing cages or stretching my piercing with a insistently thick new jewelry or taper. But I don’t do that anymore.

All my pleasure is hers now and she enjoys just keeping me teased. Spills just happen.

Does this help?

Great advice!

Sure, threaten to do it, that’s hot. But you need to make him do it too, at least sometimes, more often than not I’d say, for it to stay powerful and hot.

I used to threaten it lots and then never follow through, and then he directly told me I needed to. That while in the moment, when he’s just cum, he’s no longer turned on by it, that isn’t the issue, it’s SO hot when he is horny to think about it and also how hot is the idea that I get off on making him do it.

So now I’ve gone from not following through most of the time, to making him do it, and he’s right, it is hot! He wants ME to swallow, it’s only fair! 😛

So whether it’s straight into his mouth like above, or into a glass and tipping it into his mouth, or just into my cupped hand, or into my mouth and then kissing him. We do it a lot. And in fact MOST ruined orgasms go in his mouth now, that’s hot too. It’s like a full orgasm is allowed to shoot out and stay out, but a ruin… that goes back in him. Hot!

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simmer-until:

felix-cum-ea:

simmer-until:

This is a perfect ruined orgasm. No spurts. No twitching. No motion at all. Just pouring out all that pent up pressure. Spilling over without a hint of orgasmic pleasure.

It keeps me “wanting” she says. “It’s good for you.” she tells me.

She’s proud she keeps me so grateful for her touch, always responsive, and squirmy in horny frustration. She gazes down at me with such pride. She glows.

And so I stay her “nice boy” and never move to take back control, or take my pleasure into my own hands. I am kept

Tips & tricks on how to achieve this please?

Patience. Slow hands. Don’t clench. Don’t force yourself to spill. Don’t twitch your cock. Slowly approach the climax. Tell her when you’re ready to cum. Stop beforehand. I don’t need to be stroked anymore. Just a few fingertips teasing my frenum – my magic spot – is enough.

Don’t focus on the orgasm. Cherish the edge and fear being let down from that high. Just let it happen. Actually, she doesn’t try to get me to spill. She just tries to keep me on the edge.

Relax. Avoid “expectations”. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn’t, be happy with the attention.

You’ll know it’s “perfect” when you’re still rock hard after. You won’t have felt a tingle. Perhaps some relief from being poured out.

For me though, we’re so far down the rabbit hole that, I will sometimes get so emotionally and mentally wound up that I will expend my energy and get sleepy afterwards. It’s all the endorphins and a crash without a climax.

My wife tells me she doesn’t really want to make me spill. The edging is all the fun and none of the mess. Spilling is ok, but it’s not her goal.

And thus my body will sometimes just pour out. It’s good. It keeps me healthy. It’s not shameful. She smiles at how much I’ll generate for her. It’s something to be proud of.

But if you slip into an orgasm that’s fine. Just don’t focus on orgasms. Focus on the edge and let your body decide to well up and spill out what’s been generated from all the teasing.

I’ve ruined myself in my past. 2014 was the last time I was allowed it masturbate freely and play around, in prep and in the aftermath of getting my PA piercing for chastity.

I’ve accidentally poured out when changing cages or stretching my piercing with a insistently thick new jewelry or taper. But I don’t do that anymore.

All my pleasure is hers now and she enjoys just keeping me teased. Spills just happen.

Does this help?

@xpsychoticpixiex love @simmer-until

For the ask on forced orgasms, thanks to the ever-delightful and deliciously evil @coffeeorcusswords 😘

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Hiya – inspiring tumblr, ty! So were really enjoying exploring all this but my boyfriend keeps cumming when Im edging him. I do ruin it but I dont want him to at all. Any tips? TY! Zoe

Hiya Zoe, Yes this is often an issue but it’s pretty easily fixed with a few things. And it’s actually really important as you want him to really feel you’re in charge of him getting his release for not only the full balls to happen, which is super hot, but also for his horniness to…