Tag: restraints

When you do let him out of his cage do you restrain him at all? Have you done any bill stretching or tied them off in any way?

Sometimes, yes, we have under bed restraints so it’s really easy. Other times I make him lie with his hands under his bottom and if they come out, what we’re doing stops. That’s almost hotter. Other times no, he’s just free. And no, no ball stretching and only tied off with a cock ring that…

My wife and I are getting back into our femdom and other kinky play but have a harness question. We have a Sportsheets harness that goes around each leg but she says it’s uncomfortable and think one that goes between the the butt cheeks would be better. Do you know where to find one like that? What kind of harness do you think is best?

Umm, I’m no expert – we bought ours at Lovehoney, I can’t find the exact one but if you search restraints there are loads of options. It connects up under the bed. But we tend to have it come over the top and bottom more than making it into a big X shape, which is…