I personally love it when he gets all worked up and calls me names, it really turns me on. If I can get him to say something like ‘Oh you bitch!’ in a hot loving way then I feel like I’m getting it all right!
It’s not the best, but it’s very high on the list!
Isn’t this worth trying this for?
Genuinely this is what happens, you become the centre again of all his arousal and fantasies.
Take a risk and try chastity and caging his cock, it’s SO worth it!
This is an art well worth mastering!
If you don’t like making the decision of if he gets out of the cage this is a pretty simple way to determine it. If he makes the effort to get your horny and then makes you cum (ideally going down on you) then he might, probably, get edged. if you don’t cum, he simply doesn’t get unlocked at all.
Simple as that!
You shouldn’t ALWAYS let him out though, just to teach him you’re the boss of his cage – occasionally just cum and then ‘thanks baby, I don’t want you out tonight but maybe you do that even better tomorrow’.
You’ve got to keep them on their toes or they’ll take you for granted 😛
Try saying this, it’s so hot for you both, especially just as you go over the edge knowing he won’t.
Hello! Really love your blog. My boyfriend suggested this to me a month ago, and after I got over my surprise and tried it, my sex life (and orgasms!) has improved tenfold. I love how he desires me more and more, but I control how the sex goes! That said, he’s gotten way better with his mouth than he ever was with his cock, and my dildo is honestly better anyway, so I have no desire to unlock him. How often does he *need* to cum, and can I train him to need it less and less? Thanks!
Well firstly congrats, so great to see someone else enjoying all the benefits!!! So, guys don’t NEED to ever cum as far as I’m aware. Old sperm gets peed out as new stuff is made. There’s some evidence that never cumming might affect the prostate, so a monthly emptying of the balls is recommended but…