marfisa-thor: And I love to lust after you. Hah, loved the contrast between these too. I hadn’t ever considered a spiked cage as anything I’d use but the idea of putting him in one and then making him watch porn as a behaviour modification is kinda sexy!
Thank you! Yes it’s been a lot of fun, he’s loving it too. And yes, I totally pegged him the next day! I’ve been looking at a really good blog that’s all about it: http://onthekneesnow.tumblr.com/ It’s got some stuff that’s not for us, as with most, and lots of the pictures are quite graphic, but…
OH that’s a really interesting one! I think I might be really naughty and trick him into it! If you guys have safewords which I assume you do, he can always tell you he wants out, but… yeah I bet hubby would find it super sexy for me to initiate him being in it. So,…
amvetdl: keephimcaged: Okay, well lovehoney give a year’s return deal so we can send it back if there’s a proble. So with the metal version, you mean the copies you find on ebay? I’m just a bit worried the plated metal won’t be very good for hubby’s cock. Have you used one for long, any…
Well it all depends how well endowed you are. But here’s the cages page from our favourite toy store – Lovehoney. It’s the CB6000s that we’ve been using, and hubby says he’s been amazed at hom comfy it’s been. There were a load of different sizing options on the ring that goes around your balls…
Oh thank you, that’s so sweet of you! We have only been doing it a bit longer – we both love sex toys and one day early this year, hubby, a bit nervously, showed me a cock cage on ebay and said ‘It’s pretty cheap, might be a laugh, what do you think?’ I really wasn’t…
Well, not really an upgrade but finally our cheap chinese CB6000s cage broke (which was quite funny, for me, for hubby it involved pinched skin, he was not happy I was laughing so much!). The cage has fitted him so well and we’ve got so much use out of it that we decided to invest…
This is so true, I’ve never had so much oral sex until we started caging him up. At first felt guilty about it but he kept telling me that it was hot to be made to go down on me and just focus on my pleasure, not even knowing if he’ll get any. So I’ve taken him at his word and tell him I want him to lick me all the time now, it’s amazing!
He will tell you if he doesn’t want to, he’ll tell you if his tongue is tired, stop making excuses that don’t exist. He gets aroused by you being horny, wanting pleasure, and telling him you want it.
So try it, ‘I’m horny honey, come and lick me’ – he will love it!
And for some reason he tells me it’s really hot if I do something else sometimes, like read a book, or watch a movie (I already mentioned how me watching porn he can’t see while he does this drives him CRAZY! lol), so try those too!
Just be aware he’ll slowly be able to go longer and longer, if he’s new to it five or ten minutes is all he’ll be able to do before he needs to use fingers or a toy. Nowadays hubby goes down on me for half an hour or more and I cum a few times at least.
‘Don’t ask me, tell me, it’s much hotter’
That’s what hubby said to me at the weekend. As you’ll know if you’ve read the blog, he’s actually pretty dominant, (although obviously wonderfully switchy given we do all this!) but he was very clear with me that when he’s caged, particularly when I want oral sex without letting him out, he wants me to tell him to do it, not be polite and ask.
Things you might say:
The other twist for us is that when he’s down there, he teases the living fuck out of me. One reason is because it reminds me when he’s out of the cage he loves to deny me (it really is a shared kink!) but also he’s told me he loves it when i get so desperate I grab his hair and push him against me. Mmmm, I love it when he does that to me too so it’s not hard to empathise!
The two positions that we use most are simply me lying on the bed and him on it too, but also like this picture, with me on the edge of the bed and him kneeling on the floor.
My latest game is to make him do this and then put on some porn, but he can’t watch because he’s between my legs. OMG so sexy. I never really used to like porn at all but he used to watch lots, so this is a HUGE tease for him. But more than that, I’ve actually found some I like that gives me some great ideas of how to ‘act’ sexy and as long as we watch it together I feel okay with it. Actually when I say, I found it, he did… I told him to find me some he thought I’d like, with his cage on of course – that got some fun messages about how mean I was :D. FYI the majority of the stuff I liked was by a company called X-art, as the name suggests, it’s absolutely beautiful and very classy.
maleslaveswanted: I’ve listed what i consider to be the 10 most positive things you can gain from Chastity or any form of long term or forced denial. It stops your man from wasting his time and libido masturbating. If you are in a relationship, all of his sexual energy should be directed at you. It…