Tag: edging

Thanks for the wonderful blog, my husband and I are really hving fun exploring all this. My question is though that I’m struggling when I edge him that I give in too easily and make him cum and tho he likes that at the time I guess both of us wish I hadn’t – any tips for beign stronger? Thxs, Rebecca

Hi Rebecca! I know, this is a continual struggle for me too. I think it’s a case of just knowing that cumming is good, but him not cumming is even hotter, for both of you, and that’s what he really wants. You just have to be strong for two minutes, those two minutes where he’d…

cagedinchastity:

It was hard to believe at the end of our fun that she’d have me lock up once more. My cock, now more frustrated than before, felt ever so close to the precipice of another eager orgasm. Satisfied, she positioned herself over me for a quick tease.

Working away at me, she inched me close to the edge again and again. Each session she’s gotten better at reading my body language in reaction to every single stroke and caress. So many times I lose myself in desperate hope for a final stroke to push me beyond. I close my eyes and relax every muscle in preparation for impending release and each time… as I feel my flesh full to the brim, ready to explode… she stops!

I felt as if my brain was slowly being squeezed out through my rod. She’s gotten so stupidly good that she makes my mind turn to mush by the time she’s through with me.

Now that I had turned to putty in her hands, she guided my member through the base ring and announced I’d only have ten more strokes left until I’d be securely locked once more.

“Ten, nine…” I still couldn’t believe it as I felt the metal ring grasping me tight.

“… six, five.. . ” my dick began to throb against her grip in a futile attempt for more stimulation.

“… three, two…” there was no way it was already done.

“One!” she gladly proclaimed, letting my cock fall defeated to the side. It continued to bob up and down, begging for more attention. Lara reached for the cage body and began eagerly squeezing me in. The overwhelming sensation sent my palm tapping against the bed, signaling I was approaching orgasm once more.

She laughed as I edged from simply being locked back up. Allowing my near-climax to subside, Lara pushed me back into the metal device once more. Soon enough, I was caged in chastity again and blissfully defeated in denial. Thanking her for the amazing torture, we loitered around in bed for a little bit longer before happily skipping over to the living room to enjoy our nightly shows.

Threats are hot

You need to understand this, as they’re a really fun part of playing and they will LOVE it if you figure this out.

Make threats, threaten to lock their cock up if they cum, or if they ruin or if they don’t make you cum enough or whatever excuse you can find!

You don’t have to then carry out the threat!

This is the key thing, it’s just part of the game, part of the role play, part of the tease. If they get all disappointed because you don’t carry out a threat later on tell them to stop being an idiot and you said it turn them on, and you’ll do whatever you want because their cock is locked up and it’s your prerogative to change your mind whenever you want! OKAY?

However, having said that, of course you can carry it out if you want to, and sometimes it’s good to so the others have more weight when you say it.

So for example, the one I do this most often with is making him eat his cum. It’s not really a turn on for me but I often say he can have a ruin or cum if he eats it – and if I ALWAYS let him off that then it loses all its power. So maybe one in three I make him. (Heck, he expects me to swallow EVERY time!)

Also, keep the threats believable – there’s no point saying something that you’d NEVER do ‘If you cum I’ll never let you out of the cage again) because it loses all its power again, and it having power is what makes it exciting. So make them challenging but believable.

The final use of threats is to secretly give him something he wants by making it a threat. So you can use it to test things you think they might like but won’t admit. Such as longer lock ups, cum eating, butt plugging, bottom licking, pegging.

e.g. If you

So start using some kinky threats to make your teasing even hotter.

Some of my favourite threats are:

‘If you cum before I say you can I’m going to ruin it and make you eat it all’

‘If you cum tonight you’ll be locked up for the next (week, two weeks, month)’

‘If you don’t get hard in the next minute I’m going to lock you back up’

The fun reverse scenario with this is make HIM say things that are just a hot fantasy. So lying next to him, on the edge and you say to him ‘Tell me to lock you up till Christmas’ kind of thing. ‘Tell me why you deserve to be locked up’. It’s all very hot, for you both. And again, you don’t have to do it!  

ticklerscott:

itsticklishme23:

onedeadpoet:

This is how I like to watch movies you pick out. Then give you detailed questions about the story. Two lashes with my belt for each wrong answer, baby girl, so I suggest at least trying to keep your eyes open.

REBLOGGING FOR THAT CAPTION OMF

This is why I always go down and stay down.
God I love to eat pussy

offthewallcouple:

He was thick, and long, and smooth… you know, unlike you.

~#OffTheWallCouple

OMG ‘bitch nights’ that does sound fun!

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Jenny would always inspect Sara as soon as she got home, just to check she was still wet enough.