OH it’s you again. No, from what I read it doesn’t hurt really bad, it’s a little painful and bleeds a bit. Try giving birth to a baby before you ask more stupid questions about inflicting pain on our spouses. I bet you don’t whine about that.
I tried to find the “No Masterbation [sic] ” mimes that you referred to. This was the best I could do. Never heard of VUDU science though, is that TV show?
Mostly, yes. I’m actually the natural submissive! We’ve enjoyed exploring all kinds of dynamic all the years we’ve been together, and hubby’s the naturally dominant one. But we’ve always been pretty switchy and never cared too much for fitting in particular BDSM ‘box’. Me being submissive was a good way to start though as I had… Continue reading Hello again sorry to be a bother. You and you hubby are just into the Chastity play, correct? Not the whole dominant / submissive thing? Please correct if I’m wrong. Thank you again.
Don’t worry you didn’t offend, it’s just PMS 😛 My advice remains the same though, stop guessing, and just talk to her. You clearly loved this woman enough to decide to spend the rest of your life with her. Sex should be something you can talk about, even if she’s conservative. Do it from a ‘how… Continue reading Sorry didn’t mean to sound whiny. This our second marriage for both. I had a horrible sex life in my first marriage. We finally gave up and got into D&D gaming. My current wife and I do not talk about sex and stuff she is extremely conservative. I thought a late life marriage was for companionship not sex. I am happy being celibate. Not sure she is. I just don’t know. Part of me doesn’t want to know. I just wondered about your situation. Did not mean to offend.
In the last 14 days we’ve had sex, maybe 18 times. That’s the point. How many other couples married 15 years with kids can claim that do you think? We sure as hell couldn’t just a few years ago. i’ve cum, maybe 40 times in that period. He’s only cum three times. And there ladies… Continue reading Saw you response on how chastity has brought you to closer together and a better relationship. How and why did do that? My wife and I are in 60’s. Been married to her for 4 year. Completely celibate. I don’t understand how one partner not able to perform makes it better. Some days I morn the lose of intimacy and sex. Yes I could use viagra. But in my 60’s. My question to myself is why bother. Thank you
Yes – seems to get a bit smaller (like a sponge I don’t know I’m not omniscient Don’t put your penis in a small cage? Yes – in about a day or two (although it’s hot to tease him about it!)
Well it’s anything but sexless, we tend to have MORE sex than we did before discovering all this, but a lot of the time now he doesn’t get an orgasm as part of that. Most often I’ll edge him but not let him cum, other times he stays caged up and just goes down on… Continue reading Hello. Question What is the difference between Chastity And a sexless relationship. You husband is in chastity. Me and my wife have a sexless marriage. Reason for us is mostly health related. My wife has mobility issues and nerve damage pain Myself anxiety, OCD and low testosterone no libido. Thank you
Metal is easier to get on and off but that’s because the size is fixed, which is why you should start with the plastic CB-6000 which has 25 different sizing combinations included (you’ll want things smaller as you get used to it too so really, start there. Also the plastic ones are less threatening to ‘the… Continue reading Currently not in any chastity device. Been researching. About ready to have the “the talk” with the wife. What is better easier for getting on off Plastic or metal? Is there a beginner? How do you determine size? Where can they be purchased? Thank you