Male Chastity, Orgasm denial

If I could follow one blog on tumblr yours would be it. If I would let one faceless and fictionalized blog-mistress cage me it would be you. Practical, smart, sexy, mean and sweet! Please keep at it. Who knows maybe you’ll become famous and your ideas will seep indirectly into my wife’s world….In the meantime I’ll check you first. D

Well thank you, I think. I’m not sure what a fictionalised blog mistress means but I’ll take it as a compliment… The idea of the […]

Male Chastity, Orgasm denial

Hi Jane, love the blog, but wanted your advice. Last year my husband and I had such fun with Locktober but this year he’s been very busy with work and it just hasn’t happened to my disappointment. I feel a bit down about it, which is such a contrast to before. What do you think I should do? T xx

Hi T, thanks for the message. Look, I don’t want to be rude, but this isn’t brain science (or maybe it is, it works so […]

Male Chastity, Orgasm denial

Dear Jane, What a great blog you have created, describing and illustrating sweet denial with a loving edge and creating a magical image of yourself. Your modest statement “So, while I sadly don’t look like that any more” stands in contrast to the fact that in my eyes and those of many male readers, fantasizing about your unheard voice, unseen eyes and unfelt touch, being teased and denied by your words and your distance, you’ll always look “like that” or better. Your man is lucky indeed. Thx, D

Thank you very much D, that’s very sweet of you! Jane xxx

Male Chastity, Orgasm denial

Hi Jane I thought you might be interested. My husband was unfaithful to me a couple of years ago which all came out and was very painful but we got through it. However I’d seen a show called Californication where the wife put her husband in a cock cage which led me to research them, and find your blog. Long story short he agreed to be caged to give me reassurance it couldn’t happen again, but the main impact was it totally revitalised our sex life. He’d never gone down on me before, but does all

… the time now. We talk about sex very openly now, his libido is focused on me and it’s wonderful. As much as I wish […]

Male Chastity, Orgasm denial

Hey Jane! I love your blog – my bf and I have been playing for only a few weeks, but it’s been good so far and your blog has given me helpful advice, so thanks! :) One issue I have is that his padlock always pokes me in uncomfortable ways when I’m cuddling with him, I think it’s because the corners are really sharp. Do you have advice or tips? My email address is mshieldsnyc [at] gmail btw, since I don’t have a tumblr account myself. Anyways, thanks for your blog – both of us enjoy reading it!

Hiya, yeah we have stopped using ones with padlocks on for that reason and because they clonk around when he moves lol. Most of the […]