Male Chastity · Orgasm denial

So happy to have found your blog~ first of all, thank you for all the work and care you’ve put into it. Question: will plastic one-time numbered locks work on metal cages (is there a brand of plasitc locks where the numbers don’t wash off?) i do long distance chastity, and for reasons of safety, am nervous about mailing the only keys. Alternatively, have you ever used, or might be able to recommend lock-boxes with timers on them? Many Thanks!

Hi, thanks for the question. Yes they’ll work on most cages, apart from the newest ones (which are actually our favourite) that have the drum type lock built in. But any that take padlocks will work with a plastic tab thing. I think that the numbers are embossed into them so can’t wash off, but… Continue reading So happy to have found your blog~ first of all, thank you for all the work and care you’ve put into it. Question: will plastic one-time numbered locks work on metal cages (is there a brand of plasitc locks where the numbers don’t wash off?) i do long distance chastity, and for reasons of safety, am nervous about mailing the only keys. Alternatively, have you ever used, or might be able to recommend lock-boxes with timers on them? Many Thanks!

Male Chastity · Orgasm denial

Hi Jane, love the blog, but wanted your advice. Last year my husband and I had such fun with Locktober but this year he’s been very busy with work and it just hasn’t happened to my disappointment. I feel a bit down about it, which is such a contrast to before. What do you think I should do? T xx

Hi T, thanks for the message. Look, I don’t want to be rude, but this isn’t brain science (or maybe it is, it works so well!). You have everything you need to fix this. It’d be lovely if it all came from him and none of it fell on us, but honestly, when has that… Continue reading Hi Jane, love the blog, but wanted your advice. Last year my husband and I had such fun with Locktober but this year he’s been very busy with work and it just hasn’t happened to my disappointment. I feel a bit down about it, which is such a contrast to before. What do you think I should do? T xx

Male Chastity · Orgasm denial

Hi Jane, both my newly caged man and I are big fans. I just wanted to ask if you had any tips about facesitting? Peace, Daisy

Hi Daisy! Well for us the main issue is me being confident up there. Unlike lots of the pictures on Tumblr I’m not a skinny 20 something any more. So the biggest tip was getting hubby blindfolded! It might seem a bit extreme but it completely negates any worries about it, and combined with a… Continue reading Hi Jane, both my newly caged man and I are big fans. I just wanted to ask if you had any tips about facesitting? Peace, Daisy

Male Chastity · Orgasm denial

Thanks for the inpsirational blog! What do you recommend or prefer about shaving for him?

You’re very welcome. Well, it’s a mix. I always want his balls and below shaved as they feel SO much nicer when they are, and I play with them a lot more now he’s caged up. I like his pubes above at least trimmed shortish. We tried shaving a while back and he got really… Continue reading Thanks for the inpsirational blog! What do you recommend or prefer about shaving for him?

Male Chastity · Orgasm denial

I’m trying to get my husband in a cage that has a solid ring not the kind that hinges. I can seem to get his Ball’s through it and his cook as well. Help 911

So, play with his balls a bit, a bit of gentle pulling to loosen them up. His balls go through first, one at a time, then his cock is pushed through (has to be soft, obviously, if he gets hard just wait a bit). Solid rings are much better as there’s less to be pinched… Continue reading I’m trying to get my husband in a cage that has a solid ring not the kind that hinges. I can seem to get his Ball’s through it and his cook as well. Help 911

Male Chastity · Orgasm denial

My wife isn’t as into chastity play as I am. Any idea how to build her interest more and have her enjoy it as much as me?

Get really good at oral sex! http://edging.space/post/157590444398/how-to-give-cunnilingus-like-a-superstar And make sure you are going down on her, A LOT, and tie that into how horny being caged makes you. Also when you’re down there, get her reading stuff like my blog so she sees how fun it can be and associates the amazing feelings you give… Continue reading My wife isn’t as into chastity play as I am. Any idea how to build her interest more and have her enjoy it as much as me?

Male Chastity · Orgasm denial

Hi Jane, love the blog, thanx so much! We got into chastity play a couple of yers ago and it’s mostly been great but things haven’t happened the last couple of months and I wondered what you’d advise? I’ve suggested caging him back up but he’s not seemed too botthered? Thanks in advance, Sam.

Hi Sam – you’re very welcome and don’t worry we all go through ups and downs. It was a few years ‘down’ after we had kids that led us to even exploring stuff like this. So chastity is a bit like magic, even if they aren’t feeling in the mood, just doing it makes them start… Continue reading Hi Jane, love the blog, thanx so much! We got into chastity play a couple of yers ago and it’s mostly been great but things haven’t happened the last couple of months and I wondered what you’d advise? I’ve suggested caging him back up but he’s not seemed too botthered? Thanks in advance, Sam.

Male Chastity · Orgasm denial

If hubby’s cock isn’t big enough to make you cum like this, don’t despair.

Get yourself a strap on – not for you, for HIM. 

Amazingly it’s just on sale for just $20 if you are in the US.

Then, well the dildo it comes with is just for starters. You can keep increasing the size until you find one that just hits the spot. This is our favourite:

The King Cock Girthy – just mind blowing. It fits in the harness from the top image. Don’t buy this harness, it doesn’t work with cock cages (due to the single strap underneath). And we want it to work with his cock caged underneath…

And that’s because, size ISN’T everything. As you can see in the video. Look at the stamina, the strength, the passion.

Your guy not up to that yet? That’s okay. That’s why we have a cock cage to squeeze him into… That is where the motivation comes from.

He stays in the cage till he gets fit and skilled enough to make you cum, the way she does.

Strap-ons from Lovehoney – giving you what you deserve!