Male Chastity, Orgasm denial

So happy to have found your blog~ first of all, thank you for all the work and care you’ve put into it. Question: will plastic one-time numbered locks work on metal cages (is there a brand of plasitc locks where the numbers don’t wash off?) i do long distance chastity, and for reasons of safety, am nervous about mailing the only keys. Alternatively, have you ever used, or might be able to recommend lock-boxes with timers on them? Many Thanks!

Hi, thanks for the question. Yes they’ll work on most cages, apart from the newest ones (which are actually our favourite) that have the drum […]

Male Chastity, Orgasm denial

Hi Jane, love the blog, but wanted your advice. Last year my husband and I had such fun with Locktober but this year he’s been very busy with work and it just hasn’t happened to my disappointment. I feel a bit down about it, which is such a contrast to before. What do you think I should do? T xx

Hi T, thanks for the message. Look, I don’t want to be rude, but this isn’t brain science (or maybe it is, it works so […]

Male Chastity, Orgasm denial

Hi Jane, love the blog, thanx so much! We got into chastity play a couple of yers ago and it’s mostly been great but things haven’t happened the last couple of months and I wondered what you’d advise? I’ve suggested caging him back up but he’s not seemed too botthered? Thanks in advance, Sam.

Hi Sam – you’re very welcome and don’t worry we all go through ups and downs. It was a few years ‘down’ after we had kids […]