So I mentioned earlier the idea of a bit of a penis size teasing focus as we work up to Locktober, which we can call Sizetember (because you all seem to like dedicating months to this stuff lol
The whole penis size thing was a bit of a surprise when we started exploring this whole area of kinky stuff. It wasn’t something I was immediately drawn to but hubby admitted early on it was a turn on, and I guess I’ve come to understand that it’s not so much about the actual size (even guys with big cocks enjoy it I’m told) it’s the fact there’s nothing that can be done about it – a really good excuse for anything I fancy, ‘if only you were bigger I wouldn’t want to cage you’.
This whole kink is usually referred to as SPH – Small Penis Humiliation, but for us ‘teasing’ is a much better term for it. I even have a friend who teases her hubby as being too BIG, ‘There’s no way I’m letting that in me, it needs to be caged up for my protection!’ (Yes okay, that was my idea, and omg her husband is HUGE and I’m not envious at all).
Okay, I admit it…
Part of this journey has been looking at lots of captions and things on tumblr together, and as we started to explore this size teasing thing one of the games we played was hubby finding big cocks for me to look at while he went down on me.
It really didn’t do anything for me at first, but suddenly the combination of him going down on me while I did that, keeping me on the edge of orgasm, and knowing how turned on all this made him well, it’s flipped a switch and I have to admit, I love big cocks now. Just looking, that’s enough, and not the scary huge crazy ones. But yeah, I get butterflies in my stomach when I look at some attractive, big ones.
The whole ‘big cock coming through a gloryhole’ thing has really made it up into my top fantasies now, and that’s hot. It’s fun to have something new to think about and knowing it turns hubby on is the best bit.
ANYWAY there’s more on this blog you can explore for all that:
Some Size Teasing Ideas
So, in getting warmed up for Locktober, let’s see what I can come up with…
In the morning tell him you had the sexiest dream, but you won’t tell him what it was till tonight. That’ll get him thinking!
Then that night:
Tease him while caged first, ‘What do you think I dreamt about?
Play with nipples and caged cock‘I dreamt you had a massive cock, really big, like those ones I’m scared of on Tumblr.
I was rubbing it (play with him)Sucking it (go down and give him a mock blowjob)
But best of all was how it felt in me (climb on him)It filled me up so good
‘Go down on me’
(Then teasing him while down there)
- I wish you had a big cock, I mean it, I really do
- It’s a good thing you’re so good with your tongue now.
- It’s just not fair, why don’t you have a big cock?
- You deserve to be caged for having such a little dicklet.
- We aren’t using the strap on nearly enough
- If you were bigger I’d want to fuck you all the time
Get him to finger you at the same time, but then, ‘I want more’ and grab a smaller dildo, ‘Even this small one is bigger than you – use it on me’
Enjoy this and if you feel like it, upgrade to a bigger one!
If you stay on the edge rather than cumming then
The unwrapping game
So this one starts with you uncaging him, take off all rings around his cock etc, nothing to help him get hard – then you give him 5 minutes (or less for meaner) to see how hard he gets. No touching to help!
You could do this by size he reaches or just ‘rigidity’ somehow. Lay a ruler next to it if it’s the former
- fully hard or get to six inches you get to cum
- nearly fully hard or five inches you get a ruin
- hard but not rigid or four inches edging only
- only a ‘semi’ three inches get edged but with deep heat in the lube
- soft or two inches straight back in the cage
Okay, that’s a couple of ideas to start. If you lot like these or the whole Sizetember idea let me know and I’ll see what else I can come up with!