With all the pegging posts I made yesterday I’ve been pointed to a fabulous little website all about sensual, loving pegging (who am I to judge, I run a blog about caging cocks…) if you’re getting interested in finding out more. I thought I’d share their excellent Q&A introduction!
http://peggingparadise.com/blog/2012/03/new-to-pegging/
Pegging is a sexual practice in which a woman penetrates a man’s anus with a strap-on dildo.
2. Doesn’t it Hurt to Get Pegged?
Not if done right. Many women believe that anal sex hurts because they have been on the receiving end of an inexperienced partner who did not know what they were doing (too fast, not enough lube). If it hurts you are not doing it right.
3. Does it Feel Good for a Man to get Pegged?
Yes, yes and YES. The vast majority of men love pegging, because it stimulates their prostate gland which can be extremely pleasurable.
4. Is a Man Gay if He Enjoys Pegging?
Absolutely not. Pegging has nothing to do with gender preference. A man who enjoys anal play is simply a man who enjoys anal play. The area of your body that you enjoy having stimulated has no bearing on the gender you prefer to do the stimulating.
5. If a Man Gets Pegged Will it Turn Him Gay?
No. There is no gay fairy with magic gay dust that will sprinkle a guy as soon as he gets pegged so that he suddenly prefers his own gender. He might decide he reallylikes ass play, but it will not affect his normal gender preference. If a man is bi-curious to begin with, it might encourage him to explore his own gender, but a solidly straight man will be just as straight after a woman pegs him. Otherwise a lesbian getting fucked with a strap-on would turn her straight, right?
6. Is Pegging Always Like I See in Pegging Porn Videos On-line?
Decidedly not, unless you are viewing the amateur videos. Pegging in porn is almost exclusively portrayed as necessarily connected with feminization (men wearing women’s clothing or lingerie), humiliation, degradation and abuse. Those fetishes can be experienced with pegging if that is your preference, but it is not mandatory by any means. You can practice pegging the way that works for you and your partner.
7. So “Normal” Couples Can Do Pegging, Too?
Absolutely. Pegging can be a loving, caring act for couples. It can simply be one more pleasurable act to add to your sexual repertoire.
8. But Isn’t Pegging Really Kinky?
That’s a matter of perspective. Pegging is becoming more popular all the time. Stores that sell strap-ons have a bit of trouble keeping enough beginner kits on the shelves these days. Most couples do not engage in pegging, so if that is your definition of kinky, then perhaps it is! Pegging gained in popularity ever since the “Bend Over Boyfriend” films. More and more couples are discovering the joys of pegging every day. There is a lot of pleasure to be had…
9. Why Would a Woman Want to Peg Her Man?
- Pegging can bring a man exquisitely intense pleasure; orgasms 10 times more powerful than usual with a lot more ejaculate.
- Some women find they can orgasm while pegging their man, too. There is a variety of strap-ons, some with vibrators.
- Some women enjoy the reversal of being the penetrator and watching their man be receptive and vulnerable. They enjoy…“running the fuck”.
- The taboo aspect is a turn-on for some. Forbidden Fruit.
10. Why Would a Man Want to Be Pegged?
- Pegging can provide him with orgasms 10 times more powerful that he has ever experienced with a lot more ejaculate.
- Some men are able to orgasm from pegging alone, with no stimulation of their penis.
- Multiple orgasms from pegging are enjoyed by some men as well.
- Some men enjoy the feeling of vulnerability and receptiveness necessary in pegging. They enjoy not having to “run the fuck” and be in control.
11. Where is the Prostate Gland?
The prostate gland, which is the source of pleasure for men during pegging, is located under the bladder, in front of the rectum and at the base of a man’s penis. It can be stimulated through the anus with a finger, toy or dildo. If the man is laying on his stomach, push in and down. If he is laying on his back, push in and up. In that position, many men enjoy a rhythmic stroking, as if you were making a “come hither” motion with your finger. If women are familiar with the location of their G-spot (now being called the female prostate), the location is pretty much the same, interestingly enough. If the woman explores with her finger and communicates with the man – he can guide her to where it is and what feels best.
12. How Can I Convince My Partner to Peg Me?
That is a very involved question and I’ve written an entire article about it which you can find here.
13. How Can I Convince My Partner to Let Me Peg Him?
For some men all it takes is to tell him you found something that will give him an orgasm 10 times more powerful that anything he’s ever experienced and produce alot more come. That will do it for a significant portion of sexually adventuresome men. For the rest, or for the reluctant, this question is also very involved….read morehere.
14. Where Can I Find Even More Information About Pegging?
Read through the FAQs here at Pegging Paradise and that will give you even more information.
15. Where Can I Find Step-by-Step Instructions to Male Anal Play For Beginners?
Here is an article written for women on the best way to begin to explore your man’s ass. This is what to do before you explore pegging!
Check out their FAQ for more great info!