Male Chastity · Orgasm denial

Now that you’ve experienced the King Kong dildo. Do you find intercourse with hubby unsatisfying without it? Do you guys discuss this issue in a serious away from “playtime”? I mean not teasing, or is the game on all the time?

It’s the King Cock, dildo… I think a King Kong dildo would be a bit too kinky, even for us…but that’s a good question. Intercoursee is absolutely not unsatisfactory, but it does change it a little, to tell the truth. The thing is, I never was able to cum from penetration before so it’s not like that has changed with him. I still absolutely adore making love to him, either where he’s going to cum or when he’s not and he can only edge where his hungry desire for me is SO hot. 

I think the important thing for us both is we see both the strap on and the penis extenders as toys. It happens they go on or near his penis rather than his hand, but they’re still toys nonetheless. Actually he’s able to use them far more intimately because of that as we can kiss and be so close when he’s using those on me, rather than lying next to me holding a dildo where it feels like he’s doing it TO me.

But yes, I also now have something new in the mix. He can use one of those toys and fuck me to orgasm. And honestly we both love it! Face to face as I’m moaning and losing it and he has no worry of cumming before I’m done and so can put all his energy and strength into fucking my brains out. It’s absolutely amazing.

These toys aren’t MASSIVE. I’ve had two kids, these don’t compare! I’m not suddenly very loose because once a week or we’re using a big toy in me. However, we both kind of love the ‘you’re the perfect size for anal’ angle so actually he’s been choosing to take me there  more and we’re both loving that too. 

One interesting effect has been that I think I’m learning to cum from intercourse while using the toys, and some of that is crossing over to when we don’t use toys. I’m getting closer to orgasm than I have from it, so maybe it’s something that will happen for us even when we’re vanillaing it up.

So no, no dissatisfaction. I deliberately don’t do any teasing while we’re making love, which I think is a good plan. But I do do it when he’s using a toy quite often, because for whatever reason we both find it hot. 

And, to answer the other question you sent me, I do not ‘ foresee yourself looking outside the marriage to get big dick’. If I were seriously shallow enough to even think that he would have no interest in me. As I’ve said before, I don’t think even the fantasy of that belongs in a loving, respectful relationship, and neither of us are the slightest bit interested.

As for do we discuss cock size outside of playtime? Umm, I guess. I’ve had quite a lot of fun making seemingly innocuous remarks when size comes up in a conversation which we both laugh at and occasionally he gives me the dirtiest looks. But remember the context here. He’s a very alpha male who has creatively dommed me for years. He’s got a very nice, but average sized cock. It’s not something he worries about. If my partner actually had a very small penis I think it’d be much more difficult territory to negotiate. But maybe they’d find it a cathartic kink, who knows.

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